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Could You Forgive Your Bullies? (think about this!) No wrong answers :)

For me forgiveness is easier to plan than execute. I haven't seen some *blank* people in years so I can't say what I would do. I probably would have a better idea if I saw them in person and see any change or regret. So, for now they don't matter. Out of sight, out of mind until we meet again, I guess.
Could You Forgive Your Bullies? (think about this!) No wrong answers :)
 ktichenor posted over a year ago
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yorkshire_rose said:
I think it's very hard to forgive especially when someone has hurt you bad.But at the same time I think that forgiveness is more about helping you than them.If you can forgive it helps you not to hold on to negative feelings, which in turn helps you to move on with your life.Forgive them not because they deserve it but because you deserve inner peace :)
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The best form of revenge is to move on in your life and let the bullies or anyone who has hurt you see that you are living your life to the fullest and whatever they did to you did not bring you down :)
yorkshire_rose posted over a year ago
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I agree with yorkshire rose because I was about to say the same thing, but I didn't because of my anxiety caused it, but I would say that this answer is the best choice for me.
NectariaKiritsi posted over a year ago
Darkmoons said:
I never dealt with bullies, but if that person hurt me badly. lets say it gave me a lifetime scar. and it affected on my mental health, I would still forgive not because of his sake I would do it for me. to be abole to live without the burdon of that person, if I forgive I would live with peace of mind.
Let's say if I have a child and he was bullied and my child is getting worse with his mental health and school progress. would I forgive that person? I say yes even if deep inisde of me wants to say no, but because things won't be the same, my child won't go back to normal until I keep an eye on him and support him fully why not forgive instead of wanting revenge it will not lead to anything.
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Good points! But speaking for my mom she would have a harder time forgiving my bullies. She wasn't into revenge but she would make sure I was stronger and that they including the parents were held accountable. She had my back.
ktichenor posted over a year ago
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