Explain the limits of yours that people should not cross

Do. Not. Put. Your. Hands. On. Me.

That's the main one some others;
- Don't touch my stuff
- Don't blatantly insult my writing (criticism is fine, being a dick isn't)
- Don't make sexual advances
- If I'm telling you about a problem don't dismiss it and don't write it off as 'not a big deal'. This drives me up the fucking wall and is 100% I don't talk to my parents about anything anymore because it's always, 'oh you think you have it bad, I had to deal with...'

1) Physical contact. I'm very weird about it and sometimes I'm more comfortable with it than others so it'd usually better to just ask or stray away. If I don't initiate it or I haven't said it's okay for you it's a bad idea. My dad completely ignores it and goes out of his way to try to hug me with out permission and it's given me panic attacks on a few extreme occasions.

2) Talking about my being trans. If it's a question that's okay but just randomly outting me or having me be the trans person you know or whatever I don't like. My friend does this sometimes and I have to ask them to stop because it's kind of a constant reminder that I'm never going to be cis. My dad (yeah we don't like this guy) also outted me to an entire community of people I didn't even know one time. Fun.

1: Physical contact. I’m naturally not a very physical, intimate person. I don’t like being expected to just give out physical contact when meeting new people. For example: handshakes. OK, I get that’s a common thing here in America, but not everyone wants to shake the hand of a stranger they literally just fucking met. For me, it’s rude AF for strangers to want physical contact from me. Especially when I don’t even know them. I don’t know where their hands have been, and I don’t want them touching mine. And that’s why I’m making it a habit to wear gloves when my job coach introduces me to people, and pressures me to give them physical contact.

For hugs, I almost never do this. Even with people I’m closest to. However, I do give out hugs once I feel comfortable around them. But not until then. The thing with me is: Physical contact from me is something people must earn, I’m not just going let you touch me.

But in most cases, tho, physical contact just makes me cringe almost 24/7. And I make sure they understand where I draw the line.

2: Sexual remarks are a “no” from me. I don’t see them as a compliment, rather an insult. I don’t like being seen as just an attractive thing that someone wants to bang. If you want to compliment on how I look, that’s absolutely fine. But DO NOT cross into sexual remarks or compliments on specific areas on my body. Doing so will get you smacked.

This is all I could think of at the moment, I’ll add more.

Any amount of sexual harassment
I have tits, but I also have guns and muscles, so go ahead, make my day

trying to aggravate me
I'm a little violent sometimes and not good at self control. Sometimes what might seem like teasing can turn into a fight

talking down to me
I can't stand being treated like an inferior. If you can't respect me, I have ways of making you

Just don't get me angry and we'll be cool.

People sexually harassing me or touching me. I've heard too many stories where girls are sexually harassed, asked inappropriate questions and touched but do nothing about it because they are afraid of either the person getting mad at them or because they are too shy, I don't care if the person gets mad at me, no man puts their hands on me or sexually harasses me or even asks inappropriate questions. I will let the person know they've crossed the line if they do any of that.

1. Talking shit about, messing with or lying on ANY member of my family: biological or non-biological.

2. Stealing something valuable (or something I work for) from me. I may have a lotta stuff, but I have a set of blades. Make my God-damn, motherfucking day.

3. Messing with my friends on a constant.

That's just like doing #1.

Common ground: they're ALL unforgivable. I may've been raised a Christian, but I don't forgive those things at all.

As for people that I hate, they can do the smallest, and I'll still try to impale them.

- Don't touch me without my permission
- Don't touch my food without my permission
- Don't touch my stuff without my permission

do not steal the air I breathe for more than 10 minutes or you will be subject to spontaneous combustion