sweat heart i read other peoples answers and i dont think its bad or weird or anythn like that because frm where we usually get married to our couzin just tell him how you feel you never know he might like you back but coz of wat ppl think he is not telling you dnt be shy and tell him
There are so many judgemental people on this website. I'm not mentioning any names, but I think they know who they are. I mean, you can't help who you like. Yeah, it is wrong in my opinion but you can't exactly help it.. you didnt exactly CHOOSE to like your cousin (I doubt anyway otherwise you wouldnt be asking for help) - If I was you, I'd just try to think about something else and hope that it'll go away soon. Crushes dont last forever.
Here's a picture of the best pig in the world to take ur mind off it.. for 5 seconds haha
posted over a year ago
spider pig spider pig does what ever a spider pig does ???? lol
I think you should find a way to get over him/her. I know it's harder than it sounds but what do you usually do when you are trying to get over an ex??
Cause nothing can ever happen between you two since you ARE family and I think it's incest or something... maybe you should picture him as something you hate everytime you see him???
Sorry I couldn't be more help Shields10 x
posted over a year ago
picture him as a giant turd , hang on you might like that ... do you like turd?
it's okay to admire him but not to like him like that!
it's great to be close friends with your cousin and admire his qualities and think he's a great person and all but to like him....... :S
could you imagine MARRYING your cousin? or even just kissing him?
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because you may think you like him when actually you just like him as very close friend. however, if you're having urges to make-out with him.. well, then that's a problem you need to solve. there are other guys that you can find that you're NOT related to.
jeez, and they call Alabamians incestual people.. >:\
you can think they cute or handsome and all but be ATTRACTED to them is weird. and i think the whole thing about you cant help who you fancy is opinionated and it could be wrong if you have enough self control
they didnt choose to and i doubt they do. theyre letting themselves think they do and youre getting way off the subject of what my answer talked about so adieu !
look guys, I am totally sure Shields10 didn't want a huge debate over this he/she wanted help to get over it... have your opinions but do it in a more appropriate place where Shields10 wont have the chance to read it and get hurt by everyone accusing of others being a pedo or whatever because obvi, that will reflect on him/her
i am not sure of any other country but in england it is actuly legal to marry a cousin 1st or other wise ... some peeps think it is strange but i dont.
posted over a year ago
you're a creeper :S you're gross. SICK, SICK person
stfu amazingXmooses, he's allowed his opinion. doesn't mean hes a sick sick person. do you know him in real life? didnt think so, you judgemental fucking idiot.
oh please. the person who answered it said "lol" so they abviously got that i was kidding when i called them a sick sick person. and you dont know me in real life so youre being a hypocrite by calling me judgemental(: and disliking incest IS NOT homophobia dumb ass.
come on guys, it's legal but he never said he was going to do it did he?? And i mean it's weid yes but it's not as though they are direct descendents like brothers or sisters are they?? so leave orangeturnip alone!
Weird..
Hey its wrong but hey you're a teen right? You can't help some things. Just don't do anything and try not reveal it to anybody. That will be even worse for you.
Its not going to help if all of you say,"Stop having a crush on him!" Its not that easy. It will go away eventually. It takes TIME like it probably took time for her to realize it and develop the crush.
I think you should stop having a crush on him.A cousin is part of your family and it would be like having a crush on your brother. Just think about it for a while, you can as well talk with someone you trust and that you think is going to help you!
Two questions: How distantly is he related, and do you live in a state where cousins in love are considered incest?
posted over a year ago
Well, some states say that incest is only brothers and sisters, and they don't include cousins. I know, cuz a relative of mine married her cousin. I have a little trouble with first cousins having a crush on each other, but if you're so distantly related that you say it's "by rumor," then who cares, anyway?
if you have sexual relations with any of your family members then its incest. but incest may not be illegal in all states, although im pretty sure it is.
No, Kansas. And that's what I said- first cousins, I have trouble with, cuz they're a little too close. Otherwise, from second cousins on up, I see nothing wrong with it.
OMG i know EXACTLY what ur going through! My second cousin had the HUGEST crush on me a couple summers ago... and we kissed. He's 2 years younger than me though. Haha. Well... are the two of u comfortable talking to eachother? R u kinda like bff's? If u r, then just talk to him. Tell him how u feel!
i think u should go up to him and say u lik him and then go and then say that it was wrong to lik u and u can still lik him and he will never know and wait a mouth after u tell him that u thought it was wrong so i really care bout u
Try to think of him as not your cousin or a potential BF, but think of him as an older brother. Hope this helps :) Dont pay attention to what all the rude stuff other people might say. :)
I don't think it's wrong. You like who you like, eh? I think that an incest is okay, but it just can't go too far. You should tell him that you like him. If he doesen't think it's okay, get over it. If he thinks the same, than maybe you can hook up. Ask your parents. They'll know what to do. But if they're extremley strict or don't think incest is right, than ask a phsycologist or something of the sort.
