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8theGreat said:
I met my fiance online about five years ago (Here on fanpop, actually) and he still lives a couple of states away. Despite the distance, we have a very stable and rewarding relationship and I wouldn't want to be with anyone else.
A big factor in any relationship, whether it be long distance or not, is building trust, love, and stability with the other person.
You have to know the other person well, and they have to know you well.
Secret-keeping should be kept to a minimum and you should be able to confide in the other person and care about them.
Establishing an emotional connection is vital for relationships. After all, why would you want to spend your life with someone you don't really like that much? Luckily, with today's technology, it's not difficult to form strong emotional relationships between distances.
For long distance relationships in particular, trust is absolutely necessary- the reasons why are fairly obvious.
It's also crucial to maintain contact with one another and talk often- not just once or twice a week. It can be easy to forget to communicate when you don't see each other daily. Look into video chatting software such as skype or facetime so you can see your significant other face-to-face (more or less) if you haven't already.
It's also important to visit each other in person if at all possible, again with obvious reason.
In short, a long distance relationship can work out just fine so long as it's a healthy relationship and so long as you want to/have the ability to put forth the required effort.
(Sorry for the long answer.)
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