why am i so hated?

Aw, don't let it get you down. She's probably just insecure. You are not hated, she's just a pathetic hater.
Don't worry about it. :)

I know how you feel...I went through the same thing when I was in school. So trust me when I say that there is a 99% (I would say 100%, but I don't actually know you) chance that there is nothing wrong with you. Girls can be so extremely vicious for no reason at all. They'll pick on anyone because they think they can get away with it. They think it's fun. It makes them feel good about themselves. They're bored with their own lives and they want to bring down other people. It has NOTHING to do with you. Please don't believe that you're hated/a horrible person. I did, and that's no way to live. You'll just end up depressed. I hate to see this happen to another person, I really do...If this keeps happening, I honestly say you fight back. I wish I had.

Don't worry, she doesn't even lift.

Your not hated. As for this girl, either ask her what the hell her problem is? or just simply ignore her. She's probably just trying to get a rise out of you. In a way, I am so glad I am not in school anymore. I don't have to deal with bullies. But, yeah, that's my advice. Or you could also stand up for yourself and tell her to back off and to just leave you alone.

Knowing me I would have punched the shit out of a guy who'd that to me. Anyway like others have said. She is one person. Not everyone hates you. You're not going to get everyone to like you and to be honest in a sense that is a good thing. You know who are your friends. And that counts. There will be good days and bad days but you can't let the bad days get ya down. I mean I had a time dealing with some idiot people lately but I will eventually get over it. She's the one whos an idiot and not you so just cheer up and focus on the good things in life and not her. ^^

So it was one mean girl. To be honest, that's not alot to be sad about.

Here. Have a muffin and move on.

*Shakes finger in front of your face* You can't let yourself be pushed down like that. Just ignore her or better yet go to a teacher for help,or your parents. Besides,your life will get better. You just have to believe.

Honey, this is not Twitter.

It's not you it's them. People like that, a**holes...

Well I'm sure your not hated by ever one some one must love you also the girl must blind and dumb : )

PS if your bff left you that means she wasn't your bff she blind and dumb too

There always going to be someone who hates you or just are rude. You are not going to get everyone to like you so just focus on the good things and your family and friends do not let the negative over rule your life.

She was a b****. End of story. Don't worry, people are rude everywhere you are not the only one my friend, "Logan" gets picked on by everyone on school but you just have to stand up for yourself and prove that you don't care if they don't like you because who would WANT to be friends with someone like her.

that's terrible why would she do that ? , what have you done to her ? look here's what you do ignore her if that doesn't work go with your friends who will protect you and be your guide or tell an adult , the principal , your parents or a teacher don't let this girl get to you violence is not the answer but you do gotta stand up for yourself for what's right

Forget them. Like someone said, no not everyone is going to like you but you can't do anything about it. Find at least one good friend as be close as you can with them. No body in highschool/middle school matters- you will NEVER see them after you graduate. I'm sure you are an amazing person so focus on the POSITIVE, not the negative (:

Don't give up so easily. Life can be really hard sometimes. Those who are strong can overcome their obstacles and stay patient and calm. The ability to hurt others,is not streangth.Those who hurt others, are weak and low minded. Those who can overcome their pain with patience and positive smile, are strong. They are truely strong people. I know you are strong. I believe you can overcome your sufferings and prove yourself strong.You are stronger than your pain. One day, everyone will respect you. Don't look back. Keep going.

She's a B***H! I went through the same thing in middle school except with a boy. Believe me, if that girl tried to threat me and elbow me, like she did to you I would punch her straight in the face and tell her to F**k off! but I know I would get suspended. I don't take no s**ts when it comes to that. Kids can be really cruel these days.

You shouldnt let people push you around.

I mean did you do anything to affect this girl to hurt you?

Is there any reason why this girl should hurt you?

If it is a no to each of these questions then why are you letting her push you around?Be strong.

Remember you are a Warrior :D

Listen closely to what I say Okay,
You are not hated, I like you for who you are. I'm POSITIVE other fanpoppers love u as well!!!
But if it seems you are thinking that, obviously you've let her go into your head.
If you do think it will happen again then immediately step up. Tell your parents, friends, principal(if it was in schoolgrounds)etc.

I also strongly suggest self defense training to prepare yourself if this happens again. Yesh I am worried now, what will happen. If she did this to you for no utter reason than she definitely has issues!!! I'm sorry this had to happen to you. I'll write you some short simple steps for selfdefense Okay?

If you are caught by surprise from behind and she has her arms rapped around you then there are some ways to get out. Simply either STOMP on her foot or kick back on her knee-trust me that really hurts.

For defense like what just happened to you before then *step away from the ice* and use your arms for defense. This is a really good method but if this doesn't work attempt to grab her elbow and *TWIST* it.

A really good self defense move is to elbow her on the kneck. Or like most people suggest kick her on the groin!!! This works for both genders.

If she grabs you by the arm on the wrist....
Option 1 if your stronger than her: just pull your arm out.
Option 2-if she is stronger than you!: Okay, she's grabbed you by the wrist and what do you do? Twist your arm of course! I just did it to myself and it definitely works!!!

#onehappygirl2help
The seldefense moves were from wikihow or something like that. Be careful of what you do okay, if you strike first for no reason then who will take the blame?(rhetorical question) If you can, try get some hard, cold, unbreakable footage to prove your innocence!!!

Happy to help anyone in need!!!

calm down and look at loki

Well boo the world is just a fuckin cold and crulle place but im so srry that happend to u. :'(

honey u are not hated the girl is a sluaght apperantly she has no life to fuck up and she wanted attion from others u are better then her that's why she did that u are so much beter then her I hope u get better soon hun if she dose it agin tell someone who cares if she gets mad she needs to stop being a bitch to thoes around her feel better hun everything will be okay I promiss!