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numnumyellow67 said:
I've never been bullied, but I have seen people BE bullied. I helped, and managed to get the jerks away from them, and to be honest, I felt pretty good that I finally did something useful.
I completely hate even THINKING about bullying, but at the same time, I think of a scenario where I am being bullied. I thought through how to get through it, and I think I have a pretty good idea how to get out of it.
Most of the reason why I don't get bullied (I think), is because everybody knows that I have been taking Karate since I was 8, and I am currently working on getting my black belt. And because nobody there dares to bully. If their mothers find out, they are totally screwed.
And here, just my plan on how to get of a bully situation.
Scenario 1: [Verbal Harassment] If someone starts insulting you, either because they want something from you, want your boyfriend/girlfriend and have a plan on how to do it, or if they just plain hate you, I recommend finding way to deny it, or throwing them back at them. If you do this right, they should just get angry that they are losing, and leave. Or, continue on to Scenario 2.
Scenario 2: [Fights] If someone manages to get you into a physical fight, you either refuse to fight them, and dodge their attacks. If you most certainly HAVE to fight them, like if they have backup, I hope that you have at least SOME sort of fighting skills. I recommend dodging their attacks, and them either attack back, or trip them. This is not a good situation, for if you DO beat them they will most likely blame the fight on you. The idea that I had, was to take care of them fast, and then get out of there, and go tell a teacher or a parent. Explain what happened, and if the teacher is reasonable, they will understand, and punish the bullies. They may also punish you, but at least you got the bullies, and hopefully they will leave you alone.
NOTE: Like I said, I have never been bullied, and have never been in either scenarios, I have just throughly thought through what MIGHT happen.
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