what should i do? ._.

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If you met him online, and you've never met him, don't keep talking to him. Your mom might be right, he might be a pedophile. I AM NOT saying that you should meet him, you SHOULDN'T, because if her turns out to be a pedo, you'll be screwed. But, I don't think you should keep talking to him.

Well take it from me but I have been there only I was 11 at the time.

But please, if he's really 50, stop talking to him! I'm gonna assume your mother had a gut feeling and if that's the case, STOP talking to him!

Your mother loves you and I really do believe that the connection between a mother and daughter is strong enough for her to be right in this case. I'm sorry.

Please, just stop talking to him. This probably sounds like a cliché but it's much better to find someone in real life. If you meet someone in real life, age doesn't even matter. But on the internet, it seriously does.

Been there,done that. She's right! It turned out to be a 50 y/o man that wanted money but the best thing my mom did to me.....

Your mom has a good point, that's always a possibility. It's a 50/50 chance either way.


I don't think your mom is wrong, but I don't think that she's right, either.

I've been through a similar situation, and things turned out pretty alright there. He and I have been best friends for 2 years now, actually.
But it doesn't always turn out so great.


I suggest that you don't stop talking to him, but be prepared for the worst. Don't fall so much in love with the guy that you convince yourself that you'll die without him, that's not a good idea ever. And don't tell him where you live. Approach it with caution, your mom has good intentions and a good point, but don't stray away from it completely. Maybe things will turn out for the better, maybe they won't. Be prepared for any situation and think ahead with every move you make. You can't be too careful with something like this.

Here's what I would do:

I would have my friend prove to me that he is who he says he is. Have him Skype with you. If he makes up lame excuses not to Skype, then take that as a warning sign. If he can't prove that he's real and true, then stop associating yourself with him.

But if he proves to be true, tell your mother this. Promise that you won't give him any personal information to lead him to your house or anything, but tell her that he has proved himself. If she is still reluctant, however, stop talking to him. It's not good to disobey your mother.

I've learned from experience. Don't do anything you'd be ashamed to tell your mom. It's better that way.