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Do you hate your dad too..?

Q:How many friends do I have that hate their fathers?
A:Too many, as well as my bff (sometimes).^^

I don't hate my dad nor my mom...
but most of people hate their fathers rather than their mothers, I don't know why?

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i know i don't hate ANYONE one in my family.
11HiddenNinja posted over a year ago
 ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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EmzLovesCheryl said:
No, hate is a very strong emotion.

I don't have any respect for him though, and I have to admit, I do far prefer my mum, as mean as that may sound. It sounds worse when they're still together, but it's the truth.
I'm not really in the mood to explain my life story though.

Let's just say that at least he's never abused me, and works hard - well, works - to keep a roof over my head. He does care I guess, I just don't like the way he goes about things, the way he is.:\
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posted over a year ago 
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OMZ thats almost how i feel
Irkans posted over a year ago
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"I just don't like the way he goes about things", that comes to my mind too, and presumably comes to other's as well. But when I think like that, I say to myself "what about those kids who don't have dad nor mom?" I put myself in their shoes, and I literally cry. I meant it when I said "hate", I have met the people who keep describing their feelings towards their parents, and this description is so painful.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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but yea i kinda think we have a bit of the same situation but idk about the random not letting u do the simplest little kid things but yea im 8 moths late and kept pressing comment throught my whole shmeel
dshan posted over a year ago
zanhar1 said:
I may say I do but I can never mean it.
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-sapherequeen- said:
No, but I can't particularly love him. He's been out of my life from ten months to eight years old, about...yeah, eight years. I was visiting him for about a good five months, but then one night while I was at his apartment, he went to a party and got drunk. He called his girlfriend who noticed, then she called my mother to come get me. Well, my mother came with a friend, and she allowed Rochelle and her two babies (one was my half-brother) to stay with us for a little while because of how my dad could be when drunk. My dad called me sometime after that day, but that was the last I heard or spoken to him (I think, if not it was still around then).

Then during my freshman year of high school, my mother told me that my dad called saying my great-grandmother had passed away. He wanted to know if I could attend the funeral. I was shocked, and ended up saying yes just to give a response.
Well, I went with my mother and saw my dad after..perhaps seven years.

After that, I started visiting him every other weekend and call me here and there.

The last time he called me, it was during early November. Hadn't heard from him since :/

So, I can't necessarily say I love or hate him. You can't feel anything strong for someone who's never been there long enough, you know?
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I know. I'm so sad for you. Sorry but now, I know how lucky I'm. :(
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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don't really see it as sad (But thank you, though). It's something I've been dealing with since I was almost a toddler, so I'm used to it. And yes. A lot of kids are exceedingly lucky to have parents who will love them and always be at their side, and take their side whenever it's needed. If this fits your parents, you are lucky. :) But..maybe I'm not being really fair to my dad. I know plenty of other kids whose fathers are completely absent, at least mine tried. Also his personality is very likeable. Something that's rare to find in any of my relatives :/
-sapherequeen- posted over a year ago
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"Maybe I'm not being really fair to my dad" I think that's right. I can't imagine that there is a father could hate, hurt or kill his sons. (Unless the weak-minded one). All the parents are here for all of us, even if we can't meet/see them a day, but we feel them. As you said some kids without parents, sometimes when my mom/dad punish me for whatever, I try to put myself in those kid's shoes, and that ends me up with my tears hit the floor. I don't think parents can do whatever is undesirable to us without reasons. I'm not the only lucky, we are all lucky with our parents. :)
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
Goldilottes said:
I don't, and i don't think some people who say they hate their parents actually do- i think its mainly them just getting rlly annoyed with their parents and venting- i get annoyed with my parents on some occasions but i would never hate them.
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I was saying the same and I sill. About me, I will never say I hate them ,no matter what. But believe that, there are some people who literally hate their dads, and that comes from their hearts. I have some friends who do so, and it looks real into their eyes when they say how much they hate their parents, especially their fathers.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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yes, i have heard that too ;( its a shame.
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
Ilovebaxter said:
I hate my dad because he's a dick and he abused me.
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Nice to know... my dad hits me, but he is going through a'phase' where he has turned into a lunatic.
IceHot1425 posted over a year ago
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That must have been terrible. You must be pretty strong to endure such a thing, though. :)
-sapherequeen- posted over a year ago
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omg thats awful :'( you need to tell someone if you havent already. you cant let him get away with that
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
GaGaBoi said:
It's the other one I dislike. *coughMothercough*


I live with my Dad in the summers, i'd like to live there permanently. But no...*sigh*

My mother is very judgemental, my father just lets me do my own thing. (within limits obv)
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lucky
Irkans posted over a year ago
ChocolatyPuff said:
I love my dad, he's my idol. :)
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thats lucky :) my dads pretty cool too
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
Lawli-gagger said:
No, I love my dad.

He may not have always been there but he at least cared for me when he was there.


Check my birth mother..my hate goes to her :)
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posted over a year ago 
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You do the opposite of what I always see. xD
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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ur birth mother u should really try to get along with. she was screaming or was made numb just 4 u to cum out.
IceHot1425 posted over a year ago
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lol you shortened come to cum XD this always makes my boyf LOL
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
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IceHot, That doesn't mean shit. Where are you getting at?
Lawli-gagger posted over a year ago
IceHot1425 said:
I love my dad.
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adultswimperson said:
No, i love my dad, he's the most important family member besides my mom.
How could you ask such a harsh question?

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I love my dad too, and I know it was harsh, and I meant it. I've met lots of people who decidedly do what I asked for.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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@ShiningsTar542, Oh.
adultswimperson posted over a year ago
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See? you can't imagine?
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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@ShiningsTar542, Ok.....
adultswimperson posted over a year ago
RapQueen111 said:
Yes..I do..

But then... i think it over..

You will never know ur dad might die one day.

And u will regret how much u hated him sooo damn much.

You wish u had the last chance to say goodbye...
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posted over a year ago 
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I agreed, that's why I will never hate my dad, ever. And I always be astonished by those people that keep hating on their fathers/parents.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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You're so right, i think tht sometimes
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
Jeffersonian said:
Sometimes I don't get along with my dad because he is strict, but I still love him.
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PaisleyPark said:
No, I do not hate my dad. I love my dad.

And I only have one or two friends who dislike their parents.
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You have only one or two friends who DISLIKE? I have a couple of friends that HATE their parents (fathers).
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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I know it's in your eyes, and it's your opinion, I have to respect it as you have to do the same to mine. I think the both of us were just showing the point of view of their own, not big deal. And I know what it means. You can get its meaning without looking in the definitions.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
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Oh and thanks for answering.
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
tellymaster said:
No. I love my dad.
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Happy to hear that. =D
ShiningsTar542 posted over a year ago
Irkans said:
perfect question 4 me 2 answer. I HATE MY DAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he doesnt give a crap bout me so i dont either.after everything hes done 2 me its hard 2 forgive and forget. My dad is a horrible person,once i called him the devil,sometimes i think its true. To be honest i favor mom. My mom has always been there 4 me and has kept my family 2gether.
God bless my mom <3
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
I love my dad, but like all parents, there are moments when he's annoying.
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nikki5516 said:
I dont hate my dad or my mom. They are good parents

But sinces your talking about dads:
Me and my dad get along very well, we always laugh and make jokes and go places like shopping together. And he Never hits me. Hes a great dad and I love him :) Im glad hes my dad and I have no clue what I would do without him. All my friends say he's a cool dad and he's funny.

But even if you or anyone hates on of their parents, they will regrat it at a time where you lose them or something else happens. Parent do alot for their childern. And "They brought you into this world, they can bring you out"

I have a friend, who had a dad that always hit her and treated her like crap, then one day she was able to get a hold of the cops and they asked her if she had an least words she would like to say to him and she told him "No matter how bad you treated me, deep down, I love you" And her father started crying, and probably because her father found out that after all these times of hitting her, she still cared for him.
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Wow, I'm sure your friends would appreciate you spreading the word -.-
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Sonicishot said:
I love my father, but sometimes, he can lie, and my mom sometimes seem to hate him...
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TitleWave said:
um....well i don't really know my real dad i only know my step dad he's pretty cool though.
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cassie-1-2-3 said:
I do hate him, but it's for more than the typical "He tries to control my life" or "He's so overprotective"

I don't want to get into it, but I think that anyone else put into my situation would hate their father too, even if you're a really understanding and forgiving person.
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samuraibond005 said:
Nope, I love my crazy dad. :p
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RoohWinchester said:
No, I don't hate him. I love my dad!
Yes, he annoys me sometimes. And yes, we fight too. But that's not a reason to hate him!
He cares a lot about me, he helps me with my homework and thanks to him (and my mom too) my life is good!

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DracoLuver said:
I suppose I don't hate him, but I guess I feel a bit .. depressed because of him.

He always forces me to be something I'm not and doesn't realize that I'm a teen, I need a break from things.
For example, instead of hanging out with friends, he said I should stay home doing homework, extra credit, or reading - ALL DAY.
He complains I don't do anything at home, even if I don't know what to do because I don't have any experience cleaning bathrooms, ovens, etc.
When I show him my report card, he screams at me for getting a "b" and says I should be the top ten out of the whole school.
Gets angry when he finds out I didn't sign up for a sport.
Accuses me of spending all my time watching the wrong sort of tv and listening to songs that give me bad influence.
Downgrades my opinion and says that I don't know anything and I shouldn't talk back and act like I'm better then everyone.
(For example: My brother was running around screaming, "SPONGEBOB!" and I said jokingly, "You're so weird!" And he glared at me and said, "Oh, like you're Miss Perfect. God only made your brain right." I didn't even mean it to sound like that!)
He doesn't keep his racist views to himself and makes me cry because of the things he says
Gives me the silent treatment and doesn't reply to my questions, but does when other people ask them ..

Oh golly. There are many things that upset me -- I want to please him so badly. I want him to tell me that he is proud of me ... but I don't know how. I try so hard, but it's impossible. It breaks me down ...
He's entirely bad, but I don't know.
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aspley13 said:
i hate my dad because he left my mum when she was pregnet with me
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-RandomChick- said:
Considering hate is a strong word then yes, I do.

I hate my dad. I couldn't care less if he died tomorrow and I wouldn't shed a tear if I witnessed the murder.
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bucherstrongest said:
no i love my dad more than my mom O_o
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mitchie19 said:
Hate is a very strong word. I don't hate my Dad. Never will.
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LUV_4_BIEBER said:
I wish I could, but I cant. He came into my life at a very young age, and I loved him more than anything. He went to war in Iraq, and he came back a different person. Then one day after I came home from Kindergarden and my parents told me they were getting a divorce. Everything was okay until I was about...10? He would take me to his house, we would go bowling, out to eat, to waterparks, he even got me my four-wheeler. We did things that my mom and i couldnt, because we didnt have much money, so I automatically prefered him over my mom. Just because she was a little strict, she became the bad guy.
Then I only saw him every other week. Then mabey twice in a couple of months. Then he got a girlfriend who pretty much hated me. We were at her condo, and she took me and her beloved idiot of a childto the swimming pool. Her mh dad, and Savannah whet out to the car to get some towels, and they didn't come back for about 5 hours. I went back to the room only to find my dad locked out. She let me in, looked at me, said daddy was a jackass, and slapped me.
After that when they took me home, that was the last time I saw him for 2 years. I invited him to my school, wrote him
letters, made calls. No response. Then, I saw them in court, and I was so happy to see daddy. He said i would see alto more of him. The next January he brought me presents, and he promised he would pick me up, and take me to Hurley the following weekend. From Friday night until Monday morning, I waited with a grin on my face. I never saw him again.

He promised...
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Siren-Lamia said:
With the way he treats his family, everyone would hate him.
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KaulitZfan said:
step dad yes i love him real dad not sure i not seen him since i was 2
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MineTurtle5 said:
I don't hate my father, it's just that he's always so busy, and he barely has any time left for me.
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Makeupdiva said:
Hate is such a harsh word. I try not to use it. I do love both of my parents. I'm not one to express my emotions or my feelings to my parents especially my dad. I could never hate him. To be honest, he has said some hurtful things towards me over the years, called me some pretty awful names, and my parents are the worst couple you'd ever come across because they fight almost constantly. My dad has a very short temper, he'll blow a fuse if anyone tries to give their opinion when he doesn't like it. He isn't abusive, it's just this temper of his. Which does scare me. I am nearly 30 and still afraid to give my opinion to him, it's even hard to talk to him because if he says something that can be hurtful or if he yells, I cry, it's ridiculous I know but I can be very sensitive to yelling. There is just so much I'd like to tell him, I'd like to tell him how I feel but it's so hard. But despite all of that, I do love him and my mom, even if my mom pisses me off a lot of the time.
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