Do you think you should wait until marraige to lose your virginity or do you think it's fine to lose it before?

I don't care if someone wants to wait, and I think it's fine that people doesn't wait. It's about what they want, as long as they're being careful.

Everybody should wait till they're marrried....That what the Bible says...

I think you should wait until you're married, because sex is something beautiful that is meant to be for two people who are committed to each other and love each other; when you are married, you are bound to each other until death, and you should save yourself for the person you are going to be spending the rest of your life with.

i think people should wait till there married. and people say that if you love someone its fine. so if you love them so much, then marry them and THEN you could do it. and its better if your married and your a female. cause then if your pregnant your already married. but if your not, it makes things WAY more difficult.

well im not married so ooops. xD

but for other people, no i think you should just go with the flow. If it happends then it happends.

You can, but use a condom...

I think it's completely up to the individual. If they want to wait, great. If not, that's fine too. As long as they're being safe I see nothing wrong with it.

Yeah I want to get married first XD

The bible says too keep your virginity until your married. Im following Gods rule.
And i cant wait till that Day[:

Whenever you're ready.

as long as both peaple in the relationship is happy to proceed to the next level than why should it matter if your married ... in fact i dont't even think you ned to be in a relationship to have sex if your happy to have sex with a friend without the commitment of a relationship who am i to judge.

well I'm not married... and frankly I don't see why people need to marry, you can spend your life together with your love anyway. I'm not saying that people shouldn't get married (though for me it isn't especially important), I'm saying that it doesn't always come with happiness and that you can love and live perfectly without it.

I think people should wait til marraige Because if you don't think about it as a flower if you pass it around everywear then the pettals Fall out and thats what happends 2 humans I mean when I marry someone i wnat them to have no left behind acctions I want him to be all mine!

I don't really know. On one hand you won't get pregnant, but another hand your marrying a person and you don't know how good they are in bed. The uh the bed life might be bad. So yeah i dunno.

I think people should wait.
That way, STDs wouldn't be that big of a problem. ;]

i personally think that yes, you should wait until you are married.

until you hit thirty. if you are still a virgin at thirty with no marriage prospects in sight.. well then maybe it is time to try to do things a lil differently.

i think if you love someone and they love you back then its ok... but thats just my opinion :-)

I think you should have sex when ever you feel its the right time for you. simple.

in my opinion it's fine to lose it before, because yes it says in the bible taht you should wait until your married, but at the same time it doesn't say that your going to HELL if you do have SEX BEFORE you get mairried, it actually encourages you to have sex, and i know, because i am not married, i'm only 16, and i've already lost my virginity, and i lovesex, so i don't regret anything about it at all.

People should have sex or 'make love' when they are both ready for it and are ready to make that commitment to each other. I see no problem having sex or children out of wedlock, after all i'm one of them and it hasn't hurt me one bit.

However i do think people should be careful and use contraception if they don't want to get pregnant or catch STD's. If you or your partner have a reputation for sleeping around with people but are willing to sacrifice that freedom you've always had to join together then if it was me i'd get myself tested and get my partner tested to make sure he/she and i hadn't caught anything we could pass on :)

But yeah...i don't see any problem with it.

I see no problems with losing it before marriage, as long as you use protection and you're with a person who at least cares for you greatly.

Even though I'm a Christian, I think that it's ok to lose your virginity before marriage,as long as you find the right person, who you can trust and know that is the right one for you ^^

i say wait till engagement at the earliest if you really cant wait, but if your strong willed then wait till marraige. i do feel that sex is as much a love commitment as getting married or having children and that you should wait till you know for sure that he is or she is "the one" who you want to share this experience with.

I honestly don't think that it should matter.
If my mum waited to lose her virginity until she was married, she'd of been like a 26 year old virgin.
Or if you were to wait for her perfect match, I most likely wouldn't be here.
There is nothing wrong with having sex before you're married, it's a symbol of love- or if you just do it for a one night stand, then you're just doing it under an influence or because you can.
And as for "it's in the bible" I have nothing against it, but there are people who don't believe in that stuff.

WE'll yes and no.if you're christian then yes you should wait until you're married.if you're not christian(I am so i don't know what other religons say)but maybe you're religion says you should lose you're virginity before you're married.But it's mostly you're decision.Before you dicide yes tho,you should make sure he/she is the one and you want to spend the rest of you're life with him/her.I mean look at all the high schoolers(nothing againest them(my bff is a high schooler)who lose their virginty and never marry them.So just make sure they're te one.

Sorry if this sounded like a parent lecture.I'm not a parent.im 13

I think it's fine for someone to lose their virginity before they are married.It's their choice.
I mean, if they want to wait they can, and if they dont want to they dont have to.
I think either way it's perfectly fine as long as the person is happy with the desicion they made.

Goez with the flow... if its "the time" i dont matter if ur married

I guess this question is kinda pointless for me now... TDL/TDH and Abilei, I think you know what I mean...

To each their own. People are going to do what they want anyway but lets just say I wish I had waited. I think it's the smarter thing to wait.

Well, I agree with Patti Stanger from The Millionaire Matchmaker: Don't have sex with any of the three holes until you are in a committed, monogamous relationship. That doesn't have to mean marriage, though. I just think you have to be fully committed to a person and not be dating other people when you have sex with them.

What if a same sex couple wants to have sex? They can't get married in most states, so does that mean that they aren't allowed to have sex? I don't think so. I think that as long as they are committed and love each other (and use protection), then it's fine to have sex.

I get that it's in some peoples' religions not to have sex until they are married, but not everyone has to follow that religion. People are going to do what they want to do and when they want to do it, no matter what. It's human nature.

In my case, I am still a virgin. *sigh* I haven't found the right person (or a person at all), I guess...

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You should wait. It's the right thing to do. Save it for the guy you want to spend your whole life with. Don't just lose it, just to or because you feel 'horny'. Marriage first is the way to go. My parents always told me that I should wait until I get married [when I'm about 21.], and then I can have all I desire. But if someone doesn't want to wait, it's fine by me. It's their personal choice, I shouldn't care. But I think the person should think twice. What they're giving up, what could happen, etc before they do.

Well,Im Waiting 4 marrage.my,bf is trying 2 change that but i told him ima wait,and.if.he.loves.me
he'll,let,me,wait
and,i,might,at 18,
but,like,i,sed,
trying,2,wait,till
marrage!

Everybody asks this question, but people always want something that doesn't have to do with a particualr religion. Christianity. I'm Christian. I don't think it's right, but if people want to do it, then . . .DON'T DO IT. WAIT UNTIL YOU'RE FRUCKING MARRIED TO GET "JIGGY" (rofl) But, if you really REALLY truly love eachother, you'll wait,. now if you do it while you'r engaged... eh... it's a little better, but marrige PERFECT. 16 or less years old . . . eh . . .NOT SO MUCH. I have a Purioty Ring. I call it a Promise Ring. And I WILL try to not lose my virginity BEFORE marrige. But, even if you're Christina, and you do IT accidentially.. All thoguht NONE of it was an accident, God will forgive you. He forgives everybody.

I beleive that you should follow your heart.

I mean, it doesn't say 'nail him/her like ur a hammer'

or 'please, don't nail that dude/chick until ur married,'

but the point is as long as you luv eachother then its a way of proving your love to eachother

and as long as u use a condom then you won't get pregnant.

so follow ur heart!

I'm not sure, my parents and my religion say I should wait until marriage and I probably will but I was thinking about this earlier and I'm not sure.