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Jamie86 said:
Guys need more time to acknowledge and understand their feelings. So when he has developed feelings for you, it doesn't mean that he is already ready to act upon those. In a way, that's a good thing, because the time he needs to adjust himself to the idea of liking someone, you can gradually get to know him better. Just be friendly, be yourself. When he's ready he'll give you something more to work with. And because you got to know each other a little better it will be easier for him to show you his feelings. But, just like you, he might be insecure wether you like him or not. So, give him a clear signal every now and then. Flirt a little with him. The fact that you dare to flirt with him shows that your quite confident, something guys like in a girl. And remember, there's nothing wrong or embarrassing at being in love, and being able to make yourself a little vulnerable by showing your feelings, makes you more mature.
You know when a guy likes you when he tries to act all manly aroundyou (I think it's some remainder of our cave men period). He might get a little jealous when you're with another guy, he might talk to you more (even though what he's saying doesn't make much sense) or he might talk less to you, because he's shy or uncertain. What also works great for you, is to make sure that his friends like you. That will make it easier for him to confess his feelings for you and when you are dating you won't have trouble with his friends.
Hope this helps! Good luck!
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