was lily really ment 4 james or severus?

I am not sure she deserved Severus. I mean, if she was a real friend, she would have forgiven him. I know that what he did was horrible, but they were teenagers, and teenagers do stupid things, especially under influence of strong emotions. Lily knew Severus better than anyone, she should have known that humiliating him in front of him worst enemies might not end up well. I am not justyfing Snape, what he did was horrible, but friends stick together, they forgive and accept people for who they really are. I don't know if I would like Lily to end up with Severus, he deserved so much better. As for James, I don't really care about him.

No, Lily was really meant for James.That's why they ended up married.If they didn't get married, Harry wouldn't have born and Voldemort wouldn't have died.And James loved Lily and she loved him back.So, there's no doubt about it.

well... she ended up with James.

Lilly should of chosen Snape. I mean Neivle could be the Chosen One and kill Voldemort latter on. I mean Snape would of probually have loved Harry if he was his and Lillys. i think it would of been cute. :)

lily was meant to be with james because when harry looked into snape's pensive he saw that james used to always taunt snape lily used to help him and they always used to friends.until harry asked lupin about it and he said when they were 17 they started to go out

i think it would of been james becausesnape is a deaffeater now and voldamort killed harrys family and in potter puppet pals snapes vdairy *snape:i went to go ask lilly potter out today but she stood me up *something around those words * (back to harry ) harry: my mom was the best lol

James!

James, he loved Lily and I'm sure she loved him too, Lily only loved severus as a friend, and when he called her mudblood was the final straw, a lot of people don't like James and they will say snape, but I don't think Lily would have loved him if he didn't have changed, we only saw him for a brief moment and yeah he was being an as, but he was 15 he was immature, he didn't liked snape and lets be honest most people are really mean sometimes mostly to people you don't like, also Lupin also said Snape cursed James whenever he could so that type of things were "normal" between them

James wasn't a bad person, he was loyal, loved his friends and lily, he was a great wizard, he tried to give time to escape to lily and harry, so yeah I think Lily choose well

Also yes if Lily and James haven't married there wouldn't be Harry, everything happens for a reason

no not really shes meant for james O.o

Logically it is no surprise that Lilly chose James ( he had money and looks) but truthfully, the romantic in me believes that Severus would have been better for her.

Yes James Potter was a bully, the worst kind of bully. He bullied people to show off and make himself feel better, he believed that he had the right to abuse people because of who he was, for no better reason than they existed (His words from the book " He exists" ).

In comparison whom did Snape bully? Yes he ridiculed people, but I would like to challenge you to show me one exert from the book where he actually physically hit one of the students under his care. You could make a point that Snape regularly attacked James, but what proof do you have that he was not hexing in self defense? Yea Sirius said that Sev attacked James, but common Sirius is hardly unbiased, he did after all try to get Snape killed.

i am not entirely sure, but if she didn't end up with James then Harry would more than likely not exist. If she had Harry with Severus than he wouldn't be the hero he is today with defeting Voldimore.