Gossip Girl Who do you think is the strongest, emotionally?

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70 fans picked:
Dan?
   59%
Blair?
   16%
Chuck?
   10%
Nate?
   6%
Vanessa?
   6%
Serena?
   4%
Jenny?
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 megi_x posted over a year ago
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alessandra_28 picked Dan?:
either Dan or Vanessa.
the other characters break down so easily...specially Blair and Jenny, they are very weak.
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ksbass picked Dan?:
Tbh, they are all pretty bad at keeping their emotions in check, but {from what I can remember} Dan has always kept himself composed and logically work through his emotions and seems to be the stronger one of the Humphreys... but idk, I have a horrible memory so I'm porb completely forgetting something that will contradict everything I just siad, but I couldn't care less :/
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xoKel_Belxo picked Blair?:
BLAIR!! she does the most amazing scenes, i mean Leight does them, but Blair i think is the strongest characters she's had to deal with EVERY SINGLE GUY THAT SHE DATED CHEAT ON HER...i mean
Nate--Her FUCKING best friend, whom she considers a sister!!
Marcus--his FUCKING step-mother whom is a duchess!
Chuck--him abanding her to sleep with chestless/fugin ugly/no nosed.. amelia...**cringe**
i mean then her dad leaving her and her mother for another man...then on top of that moving to another COUNTRY...
then on top of ALL OF THAT...she has bulima...which you can never get cured from, i mean you might not relaspe for a really long time..but its always be with you...like depression even thought you may be happy, you still have it with you...trust me..
also the whole insecure thing. and with ALL OF THAT! normal people would go bat shit crazy but she remains QUEEN B, and still bags the guy at the end of season 2!! yea if that aint the strongest, emotionly...hmmm...who is then...i'll LOVE for you to tell me..;)
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alessandra_28 picked Dan?:
imo thats having a lot of issues and stuff going on in your life...but that doesnt mean strong
I dont consider Blair strong because she breaks down with every little thing that happens...she doesnt know how to deal with it, get over it and move on.


Dan on the other hand knows how to deal with his problems, he face them out instead of having emotional break downs or existencial crisis.

thats my opinion!!
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laurik2007 picked Vanessa?:
yeah either Dan or Vanessa
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xoKel_Belxo picked Blair?:
ksbass...Dan yelling into the pillow..."they gave it to..Nate.. NATE ARCHIBALD!!!!" haha classic dan scene..lol--but that was when he lost control of his emotion..maybe his voice/timper..more??lol
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ksbass picked Dan?:
I agree with alessandra_28, Dan knows how to find logical solutions to his problems without having major breakdowns whereas Blair, though a strong person at times, isn't able to handle her problems and emotions in the best way. Hence her bulimia, she was going through so much and I know it must have been horrible, but she relied on bulimia to make herself believe she still had control over her life and everything going on in it when it really made her weak and showed her lack of emotional strength because she had to harm herself to convince her that she was good enough, and if she was able to handle her emotions well enough then she wouldn't have succumbed to this disease.
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iLoveChair picked Dan?:
@ksbass, you talk sense.
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xochuckandblair picked Chuck?:
I don't know if any of them are particularly strong, but I chose Chuck because Blair said to him last episode, "You're strong."
Haha.
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alessandra_28 picked Dan?:
ksbass...Dan yelling into the pillow..."they gave it to..Nate.. NATE ARCHIBALD!!!!" haha classic dan scene..lol--but that was when he lost control of his emotion..maybe his voice/timper..more??lol
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he was upset!! that doesnt make him weak because he found a way to deal with it and go to the reunion...he found a rational solution without crying like a baby and asking why god had to ruin his life!!
and thats nothing compared to Blair's crisis in 2x18-2x19 when she didnt got into yale...he transformed herself into a completely different person...thats not dealing with the problems...its showing weakness!
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alessandra_28 picked Dan?:
Hence her bulimia, she was going through so much and I know it must have been horrible, but she relied on bulimia to make herself believe she still had control over her life and everything going on in it when it really made her weak and showed her lack of emotional strength because she had to harm herself to convince her that she was good enough, and if she was able to handle her emotions well enough then she wouldn't have succumbed to this disease.

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I agree 100% with you!
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livelydebate picked Dan?:
For sure!
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mrsbloom picked Dan?:
Blair? Are you for real? She suffered from bulimia for hells sake. That doesn't really scream emotional strength. LOL. Hhmmm and I wonder who has the most bias fans....
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brittlegirl94 picked Dan?:
Blair? No way. I agree with mrsbloom, we are talking about who is emotionally strong, not who has been through the most. Blair cries and pouts and gets revenge which means her emotions get to her. Dan has opinions and he sometimes lets them get to him but he is the strongest. All of the other characters let most things get to them, the only other person who might be as strong is Nate but then again all the stuff with his dad and Blair made him sad and natefused, so there you go. Dan for sure.
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iloveejasper picked Chuck?:
Chuck he has no parents, He has gone through so much and he always comes out of it strong :)
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NJBCfan picked Dan?:
dan deffo. Although i do think that he has had the easiest life, but still, dan.
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xoKel_Belxo picked Blair?:
agreed with iloveejasper..lol and still standing by Blair Bear dont care what you say,
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edwestwick picked Vanessa?:
so why are you even here if you 'don't care what other says'? i think if you disscus something the point is to listen to others opinions? well maybe i got it wrong lol

and i think vanessa as i don't really remember MANY scenes with her breaking down. blair is like less strong character though she has shitty life and chuck may not really show much of his emotions to the others but drinking and taking drugs when something's wrong don't really show he's strong person
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xxshannen1xx picked Dan?:
dan or vanessa.
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Nibylandija picked Dan?:
Blair? Really? It's Dan. Like duh. I've never seen him even cry or sth.
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livelydebate picked Dan?:
"agreed with iloveejasper..lol and still standing by Blair Bear dont care what you say"

See the pick right below this.....
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crazychlo picked Dan?:
Dan and Vanessa and Nate. I do think that nate should be higher up, i mean his dad is a drug addict and he kinda just stays strong about it.
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SG1-090 picked Vanessa?:
Not crying doesn't make you emotionally strong. Letting your emotions out in a healthy way - eg crying - then moving on and not letting it control your life is being emotionally strong.

Blair and Chuck are improving but they are both pretty emotionally damaged. Serena's a little better but still unstable in a slightly different way than them.

Vanessa is emotionally strong and just strong in general in my opinion. Dan is probably next for me.
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itsnaddia picked Dan?:
to xoKel_Belxo I think Blair having bulimia proves that she is emotionally unstable, you just contradicted yourself so much lol
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