So I've only been a member of Fanpop for like a month, and lately I guess I've made it my mission to better the clubs I'm apart of; especially the TVD clubs cause they're my favorite! Anyways, something I've noticed is that there always seems to be fighting between one ship or another, wether it's Delena, Stelena, Bamon, Klaroline, or Forwood. And honestly, I feel it needs to stop.

Don't get me wrong, I don't see anything wrong with a little competitive rivalry, but some people just go on, and on about how they hate this couple or how their couple is just the over all best... Really? What are we, five? Anyways, it's petty and I've seen some really hurtful things that have been said to one another.

What kind of image are we showing for our club if everyone just see's us fighting over our favorite ship's? And it's not just this club either; it's the main TVD club and the TVD show club as well. But I guess I'm bringing it to attention here because this is the TVD Couples club, so it should be us who try and set a good example; because our couples that we love so dearly are driving wedges between our club mates.

I'm not asking for you to not say anything if someone insults your ship; all I'm asking is that you be the bigger person. I mean, this is everyone's club, not just Delena's or Bamon's or Forwood's club; so let's try to act like adults and respect each other's opinions even if we disagree. No harsh words, no insults, no long rants about how your couple is way better some other couple. Just civilized fans all apart of a diverse community. :)

On another note, who's ready for Season 4 to start?!? :D