i need help i want to become bi how can i become bi i don't want to be straight i hate boy!!!

You can't... your question leaves me with the impression that you are angry and bitter, and possibly confused about Boys. You had suffered an unfortunate experience, Well I don't know the cercumstances of your experence, but I know this, I was also raped once, but I don't hold it against boys, it was only one man, and that's not All boys. Its not something that anyboy would just do, some are nice, some are good, some aren't, some are just plan jerks (ofensive, sexists JERKS!) but only a few can be an actual Rapest. What I'm trying to say is you can't just become BI simply because you feel you want to be now, the question is Are you attracted to Both Boys and Girls or not, because if you are not attracted to both that you can not possibly become BI.

If you are strait and only like boys, or a lesbian and only like girls that is fine, but just be careful, and know your company (a GIRL can be a rapest to you know). Only hang aroud with people you feel you can trust, and actually know... or well, I'm not trying to make any assumptions, Since, of course I don't know you, I just mean to give the best advice I can.

Just know yourself, and go with that. Explore, but don't get stubborn, and become involved in affairs with other people simply out of the spite you feel towards Boys. That simply would not be fair to the other person (If you try to be bi, but turns out that you aren't, if you even have to ask... people usually tend to know what they are attacted to)... well, I hope this helped.

First of all: I am terribly, terribly sorry that you were raped. I know that it can engender a deep mistrust of the male sex. So in that sense, I understand your urgency.

If you find that you feel safe with women, and being around women, and that you feel attracted to women, then go for it. But sexuality isn't something you can switch on and off like a light switch. You can't just wake up one day and decide to be lesbian or bisexual, anymore than gay people can wake up and decide to be straight. Either the attraction is there, or it isn't, plain and simple.

The only way for you to "become" bisexual is if you already are bisexual.

Look, like I said, I completely understand the fear of men right now. But just give it time. And surely you have male friends that you trust? When you're ready to start spending time with men again, start by spending time with them, just hanging out, like you usually do with friends. When you're comfortable around your male friends, maybe step beyond that. Try talking to guys you kind of know. You don't have to date them - just talk to them. Until you're comfortable with them again.

In the meantime, spend time with your girl friends. They'll have your back. Maybe just don't date or be intimate with anyone, man or woman, for a while, until you're ready to do that again. If you find in this sexual hiatus that you are attracted to women and you want to be with women, then, like I said, go for it.

But nobody can make you bisexual. You either are, or you aren't.

Also - I feel I must encourage you to report this devastating crime. I know you're scared, and humiliated, but that's all the more reason to report this. Please tell the police. Too many rapes go unreported, and too many rapists escape to do it again.

Well if you'd like to be bi no one's stopping you. By all means. But if you were raped and you don't like guys, wouldn't you rather be a lesbian then?

im so so so sorry that happened! being bi isnt just something u can make happen. so be aware that this is going to work 4 sure. think of how safe women make u feel. think about all the positives. imagine kissing girls, touching girls and even having sex with girls. idk if anything can really help u here... im so deeply sorry

Start looking at girls like myself in a more sexual way! Look at their boobs and vg and just have fun with it!

u cant just b bi just like tat u gattta feel u like a girl and a guy. u cant just say i am ganna become bi wit out u likeing others. u should expirament.

all gurls go throught...ugh i hate blokes...der just.... >:)



anyway my point,u dont choose to be bi not all blokes are going to rape u...learn to fight [;

theres not really a way to become bi, most pple are jst born tht way bt dnt realize it till they older. i wuld say jst try stuff wit girls and pple, and see wat ya thnk lol

Try to kiss a girl, or get a girl in bed with u and start making out, or find a girl who is bi or les and ask em out and then kiss em or get them in bed and make out!!!!!!!!!!!!!