Sex and Sexuality Question
I am still a virgin at 18. is that bad?
People keep telling me to lose it. and my boyfriend is ready, but i'm not i don't think i'll ever be
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rose12345 posted over a year ago
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uploaded900 said:
It's not really bad. I'm an 18 year old virgin too. Sex will feel great when you really want to have it! You don't want to regret the first time ever!
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boytoy_84 said:
No it's not. There's no rush into losing your virginity anytime soon. It's entirely up to you when you're ready to lose your virginity. I feel it's the women's right to be ready whenever they decide with their partner.
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Makeupdiva said:
Not at all. There are lots of people who are over 18 and are still a virgin. I wish I had waited. If you aren't ready, then you're not, and there's nothing wrong with that. If he keeps pressuring you about having sex when you aren't ready than maybe, he shouldn't be with you. He should respect your decision. Don't lose your virginity because others think you should just lose it all ready because you'll be an adult soon, cause once it's gone, it's gone for good. You just have to be sure that losing your virginity is YOUR decision and not someone elses.
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LoneWOLF2272 said:
i 20 and still a virgin. i had alot of people even my real dad tell me im such a failure because i couldnt be with anyone while i was in my teens maybe? well it didnt put me down i just did wat i wanted to do like my hobbies and such. im waitn till im married to lose my virginity nothn wrong with it
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Nerdbuster2 said:
no of course not, I know lots of people say you should be 18 before you lose it, or you should have lost it by the age of 18... I'm 17 and I still have mine and to be honest I don't mind when I lose it because I know I already have the right person to lose it to :) so just go with what your heart says and you will be happy that way :)
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Renarimae said:
No. I'm going to 18 in December and I'm still a virgin. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing and many times, having sex when you're not ready to can lead to various problems that I'm not going to go into at this moment. Don't have sex until you're ready.
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ShadowFan100 said:
No, its not. No one has the right to force you into sex. And maybe it's just my opinion, but if he keeps on pressuring you, then he may not love you enough to respect your personal choices or body.
I'm 24, and I could care less if I ever "lost it" or not.
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