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do u think I'm in a good situation here?

me and my boyfriend had a child together. we are still together and are both taking care of him. but, we are only 15 (almost 16) and 16. we both love each other very much and plan on never leaving each other. we might even get married. do u think that this is ok, and do u think we should get married?
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the best thing to do is as cinders said have a long engagement to get everything sorted
Frizzhead posted over a year ago
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Yea good thing
JailynnLuv posted over a year ago
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Cinders said:
If you are getting married because you really do love each other, then go for it. I recommend having a relatively long engagement (a year to two years) in which you two can maybe finish high school. Are you currently living together with the baby, or do you both live with your respective parents' still? If you're already living together, then maybe you don't need a long engagement (though I still recommend it).

If you want to get married just because of the baby, then think about that. Marriage is a huge commitment. I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm just saying think about it. In any case, I recommend a long engagement.

Whatever you decide, it's your life. You should be willing to handle it responsibly and don't let anyone judge you for your choices. You're just as good as anyone else.
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posted over a year ago 
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i completely aggree!
skibbles1234 posted over a year ago
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BritBosnian said:
Mike really loves you and the baby. he would never ever leave you witch makes him a good bf and an even better husband. i acutely saw him yesterday looking at a jewellery shop so, maybe...
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posted over a year ago 
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omg really? EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hollestercutie posted over a year ago
K5-HOWL said:
if u guys truley love each other than get married and look at the picture they are making a heart
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if u guys truley love each other than get married and look at the picture they are making a heart
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Hollestercutie said:
mike LOVES you! he would do anything for you, he stopped his social life to help you and the baby and he is super smart! he is planing on being a vet! that will bring in some $$$$$$! oh, and Sharon says that u guys are a beautiful family :)
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JazzLover101 said:
If he really loves you and you love him you should. If your doing this for the child's sake then you shouldn't. So it all depends on your love for each other the child needs to be thought about too though sometimes you need to be first
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aya_halaby said:
this is crazy why would you have a baby at such a young age. have you ever heard of condoms they where invented to stop couples from getting pregnant. why dont you just put the baby up for adoption that way you can both get on with your lifes and stop worrying about whats better for this kid
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AYA r u ok why would you say something like this.dont litsen to her you should what ever you think is right
nafela posted over a year ago
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:OOO omg wow you are so cruel
nessienjake posted over a year ago
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Yeah. What world did u grow up in?
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
nafela said:
you should do what ever you think is right.if you love him and he loves you then you should go for it because one way or a nother your going to spend the rest of you life with him. so it would be best if you do get married to him. but if your having second thoughts then maybe you should stop what your going to do and think about it. if you just want to get married because of what you think is best for the baby then you probably shouldnt but if you two realy love each other then you might as well get married
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jeftelover said:
get married!!!!!!!!!!!!!if you are then
invite me!i luve weddings!if you both luve each
other then go for it!
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