Can u help me with boy friend help every one can help me I need ur help fast.

Honey look dont listen too them if your ready and hes ready then go ahed just make sure you use protection but you might want too keep it personal between the two of yall hope that helps

Well personally I don't think you should. I mean, first of all you're underaged, and becasue you're 12, in my country (UK) you/him could get done for statutory rape, as a girl under 13 is not mature enough to consent to having sex. I mean, I don't know if it's the same in your country, but the fact that this is a legit law shows that people your age are generally to immature for something like this.
Also, lets assume that you go through with it anyway, you need to be prepared for the worst. I mean, you could get pregnant. As I always said, you shouldn't have sex unless you're prepared for any consequences.
Finally, you need to make sure that your boyfriend realy does love you. I mean you say you've been going out for five years, but considering you were only 7-8 at the begining of the relationship, you need to make sure that you're going out for the right reasons, rather than stay with him. You need to make sure you trust each other, because if he says something to one of his mates, everyone would find out, and that could spell disaster.
That's just my opinion. I don't know too much, but this is just my view from what you've told me :D x

Just from your spelling, I would say you aren't mature enough to do it yet, sorry. So... wait.

wow almost 5 years, most 13 year olds go out only for a week, yall must really like each other and hope u stay together for a long time. but if u want to, go ahead but i say wait a little longer until u guys are 100% sure u are ready. i don't think u wanna do this too early though. in my opinion u should wait till ur older, don't u think ur too young though??

I don't even understand why you ask your self that question, even if you guys are in love like i don't know what, that doesn't change the fact you guys are 13, and that it's not an age to have sex... i'm sure that even if you use protection it will be something you will regret, you have to learn to go against your desires say no to your envys and wait for the right time.

it's for you good, and it wont kill you if you wait, it's going to help grow, and love each other, and if you see that when you guys go futher each time you play, then think about just stop that... and do other things, love is not only about sex, and if you do it to early, like know,... i'm not sure your couple will last,

just saying you are free to beleive me or not...

hope you will make the right decision, you are still young, tooooooooo young to think about those things...

take care

if ur ready and yall rlly luv each other then u should

dear i think u r not in a situation of having sex or something like that.....u should control ur anger and ignore that guy.don,t spoil ur life coz of brat (sorry) but thats true.......but if u want to talk message me

Don't have sex yet. Wait at least until you're legal.

Like others before me have said, prepare for the worst. Let's imagine that your condom breaks and you get pregnant. You're super young, so you're not legally allowed to have a job and neither is he. You have no way to support this unborn child, and none in sight for a good 2 or 3 years.

Since you're young, you probably haven't finished growing. Giving birth is incredibly painful and your hips might not be big enough to support childbirth. Your muscles (in your crotch area) might tear because the baby's head is so big. Imagine squeezing a large grapefruit through your vagina. Ouch?

And after all that, you never know if your boyfriend will stay with you and help care for this child. NOW he says he will, but that's before any of it happens. Grown men run away from their baby mammas, who's to say he won't? You may tell yourself that he's different and that he WOULD stay, but you never really know.

And that's without even mentioning STIs!

I'm such a downer...but all that to say that you should WAIT until you are fully aware of what might happen. And you're legal. :)

Maybe you guys should wait until you know how to type in a way that is easy for elder folk to understand.

i dont think your mature enough but you seem so sure that you are?:L but think about it.. its not just feeling ready its also common sense? like putting on a condom right if you cant do that it can split and you can get pregnant... and two 13yr olds cant look after a baby??? wait till your 14 or 15, cus theres more types of contrectpetion then condom when you yurn 14 you can go on the pill? but do as your please.. take my advice or dont cus at the end of the day you've only got yourselves to blame if anything goes wrong no one else... but i advice you do not have sex yet and wait till your older cus things can go wrong!!!

My personal opinion: You guys are way to young to be having sex.

If you're going to do it anyway: Make sure you use protection and just really try to think about the consequences. This may make you more attached to him, but him less to you. You may regret it when you're older and meet someone else you want to share the experience with. Etc.
I hope you make the decision that's best for you though!

Your way to young to be having sex and both of you don't know anything about taking care of a child.