I need help... a lot.

First off, twelve years old is not too young to begin having sexual feelings. It's called hormones, it's normal, everyone else your age is beginning to think (a LOT more than they admit) about sex. You're not unusual, and I highly doubt that you are feeling "hornier" than a normal twelve-year-old girl.

Second of all, I can't tell you when you'll be ready to have sex. Only you know. All I can do is advise, and strongly recommend against having sex until your late teens. I would suggest waiting until legal age of consent in your state/country, which varies, but the average is sixteen or eighteen.

I say this for a reason - I know you're having strong urges, but there's more to sex than just satisfying those urges. Sex is about making a connection and opening yourself up to someone else. When you have sex with someone, you strip away your own defenses and lay naked - physically and emotionally - with another person. You are vulnerable, and you should only do this with someone you trust, someone you love. Don't have sex because of someone on the Internet. (How does that work, by the way? Is he sending you suggestive messages? Are you sure he is who he says he is?)

Anyways, sex is for mature, responsible, committed individuals who know what physical intimacy can do to a relationship and to an individual. It's not something to take lightly, or to throw away. It matters, and it's important, and you should only have sex when you are ready. If, when you reach fourteen, you honest-to-god feel that you are comfortable, mature, and ready to have sex, then that's your choice. But even so, I highly advise against that. If I were you, I wouldn't put an age deadline on when I want to lose my virginity, I'd put parameters on the first person I'd want to have sex with. Who should he be? What should he mean to you? Where would you want your relationship to go afterward? These are hugely important questions to consider.

In the meantime, someone mentioned masturbation as an outlet for your sexual needs. This is a fun, safe way to satisfy your urges, and I do strongly support this. Also, if you explore your own body first, and figure out what you like, you can help your future boyfriend figure that out as well, later. ;o)

Hope this was helpful.

scence you are 12 i recomenond masterbating (yes i said that) it couldhelp with those fellings for that person

i would also recomend masturbationg too...everybody does it, even if they don't admit it;) im 15 and im still feeling hormones

I am 12 and I get horny all most all the time when I see my boy friend he is 13 and when we kiss we think of having sex but we kind have tryed but I would not light him go throw with it I feel like I am not ready to have sex but we kiss so good and it feels so sexy but just don't need kids at this age. My mind say yes but my body says no and don't no witch one to lisen to. And he is over now and he just kiss me and it felt so so good 1-10 I would give him 10. He might just sleep over to night yes in my bed with his shart off and just his boxers but no and I mean no sex I think.