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Is this right? (Girls only please)

Today was weird i really felt too horny so i just started fingering my self!! i felt so weird and it felt so good in the same time besides i'am only 12! i don't wanna do this again and what if i did it? please help!
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Sorry but that's disgusting I'd never do that to myself, I only let my boyfriend do that. But doing it to yourself is a little strange, sorry.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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i didn't use my fingers i used my dolls hand it's disgusting to me too
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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i do that too. I just don't know why...
ilovezuko23 posted over a year ago
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Cinders said:
First of all, you are not alone. Many twelve-year-old girls are on the cusp of adolescence, and get there before most boys their age. What you're feeling is a natural part of growing up. Your horomones are sending these signals to your brain. You're entering adulthood, these things happen, and these feelings are normal and expected. It's also normal to explore your own body at this age, and discover yourself and what helps satisfy these urges on your own. If you find out how to satisfy yourself, there will be less pressure to have sex, which is awesome because you really should not be having sex right now. Not that all girls listen to that, but it's much healthier to be exploring yourself on your own before you start dancing with a partner.

Second of all, on the contrary, I encourage you to do this again. And again. And again. Don't be afraid of your body or your feelings. Once you know yourself well enough, you can venture out into the world of partner dancing. But not before that time. Feel comfortable with yourself and your own body first. Wait until that "it's disgusting!" idea fades away, and it stops being disgusting, because it really isn't. I mean, I understand that perspective, and it's a healthy one to have at your age, but it'll pass, I promise.

Basically, all I'm trying to say is that masturbation at your age, or exploring your own body, is absolutely, one hundred percent normal, and you are not the only girl your age doing it. I'm also encouraging you to keep at it, by yourself, and don't go there with a boyfriend (or girlfriend!) until you are absolutely ready for that next step, hopefully in at least four or five years. But if you're not ready then, don't rush yourself either. I know women who were virgins until they were twenty-five or older, and that's perfectly normal, too.
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Thanks it helped! it was'nt disgusting actually i loved it!
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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spunkyonyx said:
Hun, look u can not lose ur virginity to ur fingers! Other wise i would have lost my virginity a long time ago!!! I started to finger myself when i was ur age now im 14!! But u didnt lose ur virginity!! trust me! did this help? Hope it did!
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Thanks alot! but,are you sure?
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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Yes i am sure!!!
spunkyonyx posted over a year ago
samantha534 said:
i stared fingering myselfwhen i was 8 then i stoped by idk but i stoped hope this helped
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Lackson4ever85 said:
you are normal:). i think most of girls are around 10-12 years,when they begin to touch herself,i was alomst 12 first time i have sex.
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posted over a year ago 
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LOL!
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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whore girls like u will never get married luv
Tailsprowerfox posted over a year ago
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@tailsprowerfox someone's a little sex negative, eh?
kairi13050 posted over a year ago
bri-marie said:
It's perfectly normal - most girls begin exploring their bodies around age twelve. There's nothing wrong with it, it's not disgusting. If you don't want to do it again then... don't.
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filand said:
there's nothing wrong with what you did, it's perfectly normal to explore your own body, better to do this than to go and let some immature little guy have his way with you, which by the way, you should NOT do seeing as you're only 12.
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posted over a year ago 
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seeing???
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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"seeing as" is a turn of phrase. It means something along the lines of "because".
Cinders posted over a year ago
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12 year olds are not emotionaly or even physically ready for sexual intercourse. Their bodies is just STARTING to change at that age. They should not be engaging in sexual intercourse at that age.
nene72 posted over a year ago
kairi13050 said:
in my opinion, fingering oneself is kinda gross. i know i would never do that. does that mean you can't? no. does that mean you shouldn't? no. does that mean you should feel bad? no.

also, if you don't want to do it again, don't. but if you like it, go ahead. : )

hope i helped.

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j-blover1992 said:
get your self a guy hopefully that will help good luck
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posted over a year ago 
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urgh!
germany123 posted over a year ago
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god!!!
elmi posted over a year ago
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We r trying to help her not go in to women hood.
janaelee posted over a year ago
janaelee said:
Ok u r no by ur self I am 12 and I did what u did at 11 and I talk with my boy friend and he helped me out no we did not have sex. But he started to play with me by runing me around his/my bed room and trying to get my down and when he do he would get on tub of me and kiss me all over. It is so so good.
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well....you should'nt do this at this age..I mean you should stop him before and get's out of hand
jeniffer2200 posted over a year ago
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that is disgusting at that age i would exxcpect u to no thats wrong :(
LoveHeartXX posted over a year ago
Kackahaluzova said:
Don't worry it's not anything bad. Every girl does it sometimes. I started when I was 10.
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posted over a year ago 
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thats young
Isabella33 posted over a year ago
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× I'm not sure. I was 10 or 11. The point is that you don´t have to shame for that.
Kackahaluzova posted over a year ago
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