Question for guys, and please be honest: do you think sex is something special between two people, or just something fun to do when you're horny?

As a man in his fifties, here is my opinion. As a teenager, sex for guys is about hormones. It is typically a selfish act. Hopefully as a guy ages he realizes what a beautiful gift is for him and one special woman. Sex becomes more about fulfilling the needs and desires of his partner and less about his. Casual sex can leave regrets that cann't be undone. Sex with a spouse you love is guilt free and can make your relationship stronger.

I am not a guy but I think it just depends on who you are having sex/intending to have sex with.

For me,sex should be special. However people have sex from many reasons. Some people see sex as a fun,a game. Dissatisfied and unhappy by their lives,people find a consolation in sex itself. In fact,having sex for fun is pointless and it fades pretty fast. Making love with a person you care about is a wonderful thing,moments of pure happiness.