am abotu to lose my viginity can anyone tell me how it feels

OK, I know this wasn't the answer you were looking for, but it needs to be said.

First of all, don't rush off to lose your virginity. Not to play mom, but there are a million good reasons to wait, and there are plenty of BAD reasons not to. Don't have sex just to lose your virginity. Don't do it because a boyfriend is pressuring you. Don't do it to be cool, or popular, or liked by anyone (including your boyfriend).

If you're curious about sex, explore yourself first. If you don't know what you like, it's better to figure it out on your own, first, so you can help your partner out later.

I'm sorry if I sound like a lecturer, and it may not be the cool thing to say, but I'm far too old to care about looking cool. I really, really hope you wait. The risks with sexual behavior is also higher the younger you are. First of all, teen pregnancies are much more difficult for young teens. Second of all, and I'm not saying you are, but young teens tend to be careless and/or ignorant about safe sex practices, and what you can and can't get an STD from doing. Third of all, there are psychological and emotional issues that can occur in kids who have sex before they are mentally prepared for it.

I don't mean to try and scare you out of it, I just want you to be aware. Can you get an STD from oral sex? How about handjobs? Can you get pregnant if you're on your period? What if he pulls out before he orgasms?

Do you know the answers to these questions? If not, I do not think you should be thinking of diving in over your head.

Look, I recognize that everyone matures at a different time. And I do not judge a girl for making the choice to have sex at a young age. But that doesn't mean I encourage it. You guys are so young! You have so much time. Can't you just enjoy that for a little longer?

Also, my general caveat:

well, it sorta... hurts i guess. its because a thing in ur vagina gets popped when the, er, penis touches it. and its filled with blood ^^". it doesnt hurt A LOT but it still hurts

First off, I agree with Cinders. My opinion(coming from personal experience) would be to wait until you're married. Not only are false pregnancy scares not fun (and they happen, not matter if you have a condom and birth control - nothing is fool-proof)when your still in school, but if you wait, you are 100% positive that the boy loves you. Saying "I love you" and meaning "I love you" are two separate things. It sucks to find out the "man of your dreams" only wanted you for sex.

I would also like to add that, depending on where you are, you maybe under the age of consent for your area. If the boy you are with is over the age of consent, and you are not, he can get charged with statutory rape and, depending on his age, go to jail. Keep that in mind.

Now, on to your question: There really is no "set" feeling for everyone. Everyone's bodies are different and no two experiences are ever the same. I can tell you that my first time hurt, but just a little. The only way I can describe it is similar to the first time I put a tampon in. There was a tiny little pinch, a strange uncomfortableness for a little while, and then it was gone. I didn't bleed, but I know some girls that have. Some also said that it hurt a lot.