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Cinders said:
Is it normal? Yes, of course. Why do you think sex education starts so young in schools?
As for how to deal with these feelings and urges, explore your own body. Satisfy your own needs, alone. Please, do not have sex until you are mature enough to understand and deal with the physical, emotional and psychological consequences. I strongly urge you to wait until you are eighteen, but obviously not everyone does, so at the very least wait until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you want to have sex, and make sure you know the person very, very well.
Remember, whether we treat it as such or not, sex is a very intense form of intimacy, and can change your relationship with your partner, even if it is just "casual."
You are a normal teenager. You will have urges and feelings, and that's OK. You can explore yourself and your sexuality. Fantasize. Masturbate. But until you figure out your own body, I must urge you to refrain from trying to figure out someone else's.
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