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I know someone who lost their virginity at 12! Wierd huh?

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i know people who are 35 and still havent made love/sex. its a persons choice to lose something so valuable. at age 12 it may be a bit young in my opinion but its an opinion.
Riah posted over a year ago
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i agree it is a very personal chiose..
cherry7878 posted over a year ago
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i know this chick who got prego at age 12 and when she was asked that is that age she lost it and she said"nope i was younger" now she is 17 and has a child of 6 years old
Ichigo-sama posted over a year ago
 noodles3378 posted over a year ago
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Tamar20 said:
It's disgusting.

Most of them are just careless, uneducated, rebellious, or blinded by their "puppy love" It's good that you have your head on straight. Maybe you can convince your friends abstinence is the way to go until you are truly ready for sex.

Good job, I'm finally proud of a teenager on here.

But then again there are different reasons people lose their virginity at a young age. Because one, they want to fit in, or they don't want to feel like they're less experienced than others, this is more the case with guys than with girls. Two, because they have a low self esteem and will believe what a guy says because they want to believe it, or even if they don't, they just want to feel wanted for even that one moment, this is more the case with girls. Three, their parents don't talk to them about sex, so they don't know how to control themselves, don't know the facts about sex and the dangers. Four, they're horny and can't control themselves, and don't use their brain first. Five, they think they're in love, so they think its okay. Six, some of them truly think they are ready for it. Seven, some of them have grown up too fast so to speak, and have been exposed to things at too young an age, whether its from hanging out with the wrong people, parents being too lenient, or even sexual abuse. Eight, some are wild and crazy, think they're the ish, think they're grown, and think they know everything and are so smart and so mature. Also, some of them have that mentality that everyone is doing it, and nobody likes to get left out of anything. There is a possibility that they can be truly in love and are really ready to do it, but that's only the case in like 1 in every 25 million lol. Sorry my answer was so long... lol.
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posted over a year ago 
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I agree with you.
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
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agreed...some of my friedns i know do it just to feel as if they are loved by someone, they just go about it the wrong way
Deans_Girl posted over a year ago
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Jillywinkles said:
grossssss...

I think everyone should be free to do whatever they want, but to me personally it just seems sick to have sex when your body and mind are not developed and are still a little kid's. At 12 you should be just starting to date!, not getting naked and sweaty with other kids.

But whatever floats your boat, I guess :S
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posted over a year ago 
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i love that saying. whatever floats your boat.
phelpsfanatic2 posted over a year ago
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I love it too! :)
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
x-Sophie-Jade-x said:
Dude! That’s wrong, each to their own and everything but at 12 I was still watching the Disney channel. A 12 year old shouldn't even be thinking about it let alone having it!
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posted over a year ago 
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Exactly!
sesshyswind posted over a year ago
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yeas i agree with everyone
Lantage1 posted over a year ago
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Guhh its not tht bad its illegal but im 13 and i think about it all the time it isnt tht bad of a thing for a 12 year old to hink about it but for a twelve year old to do it thts just in my oppinion the parents fault
heyythere posted over a year ago
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I agree with @heyythere. There's nothing wrong with thinking about it. The wrong in the act is actually doing it
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
deedeemx said:
i had a so called friend who lost her virginity when she 12, and by age of 17 she felt like all of her boyfriends only used her for sex and it was really, really sad but i don't care she's hoe
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posted over a year ago 
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lmao!!!!!!!!
Frances_17 posted over a year ago
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Iamo?
taylorRFan posted over a year ago
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lol deedemx for some reason I laughed xDD
nessienjake posted over a year ago
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hahahaha
Emmalie1935 posted over a year ago
CornChips said:
Quite sad. Innocence is disappearing for children.
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posted over a year ago 
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it is sad
wolfgirl985 posted over a year ago
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Indeed. :(
CornChips posted over a year ago
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Innocence IS disappearing. I had a dirty mind by the age of 4 or 5...
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
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No worries, I did to at 5. It wasn't my fault though, I was mimicking what happened to me at that age.
CornChips posted over a year ago
Freshonlybakery said:
Eh.. I mean I think it's a bit young but I know several people who are 14 and aren't virgins anymore..
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Yeah same here.
Frances_17 posted over a year ago
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Same :(
sapherequeen posted over a year ago
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same
DQJEU posted over a year ago
heatherbauer80 said:
I am 15 years old and I had sex last year. 12 is a little young for me.....your kinda still developing! THATS NARSTY
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LAWL! Narsty!
Mrs-Grint posted over a year ago
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Ya, that is really nasty! You should have totally waited til you were at least 16 or 17. That's what i'm doing.
Bekah97 posted over a year ago
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sluts
invader4life posted over a year ago
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Um, 18 is the LEGAL age. you guys better be pretty damn sure if your ready to have it because if something goes wrong....may god have mercy on that soul of yours.
ImBooOK posted over a year ago
sapherequeen said:
Believe this or not, I know some girls who lost their virginity at age 10 :(
Even. Weirder. But, yeah...
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Me too, it's their choise but that's kinda young
Mela1994 posted over a year ago
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i lost mine @ 14
johnhetfield666 posted over a year ago
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sesshyswind: I think the boy was around 15. And my apologies for the late reply.
sapherequeen posted over a year ago
SaitoSaturno said:
If she feels bad, then you should support her. I had a friend who lost it at 12 as well, and she is becoming a whore and isn't ashamed to have sex with nameless men. Be glad she isn't like that and help her.
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doglover1996 said:
well im 12 now and i could see having sex within the next few months (but by then i would be 13) but thats only because i am very i mean very mature for my age (phisically and mentally)
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Im 14, and the thing is, i am mature for my age too. I dont see you having sex, personally. Even if you are mature, (like most girls say to their parents right before they get pregnat) something could go wrong. your too young to actually get "serious" with someone. yeah you can date that person and love them deeply. but i would wait until you are married. Im not trying to be a jerk to you eiether, im just letting you know.
ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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i agree with ImBooOK
djsheshe posted over a year ago
volcom14 said:
I'm 13 and I'm no longer virgin just lost it this summer
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posted over a year ago 
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:O
nessienjake posted over a year ago
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u r a slut
invader4life posted over a year ago
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SLAG
Tailsprowerfox posted over a year ago
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Hey hey guys be nice. Some girls r different from others. We can't judge them
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
Kimi4312 said:
Im 14 & I Lost My Virginity Three Months Ago
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posted over a year ago 
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slut n hore
invader4life posted over a year ago
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That's nor very nice. All girls r different. We shouldn't judge them just cuz they had sex young
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
KatiiCullen94 said:
i know a 12 WHO IS PREGNANT BY A 18 YEAR OLD!
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posted over a year ago 
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i was 14
KatiiCullen94 posted over a year ago
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:O omg umm thats very gross ://
nessienjake posted over a year ago
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That is VERY illegal!
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
sesshyswind said:
All these answers are making me sick! I'm a mother and my only daughter is 12, she'll be 13 in a few months. I lost my virginitry at 17 and even at the time I thought it was too soon, but fortunately in my case it was the right guy! Same man I'm with now 14 years later. I think kids these days need to think with their heads first not their asses!
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stephmfan215 said:
omg that is sick and wrong. i know a girl that did when she was 13. its so wrong
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bellabrowneyes said:
all i wanna say is that i dont find it wierd that 10-12 year old kids are having sex .i mean seriously love and sex dont have an exact age anymore but anyways i do find it sad that kids at a such young age are alredy havin sex the kids should wait till they are older at least 13 like me.......... lol
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posted over a year ago 
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no gayrod sex till married so go to hell
invader4life posted over a year ago
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Ok, invader, it is VERY wrong of you to accuse someone like that. Yes i agree she should have waited, but personally saying things like that are rude.
ImBooOK posted over a year ago
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do u like candy
invader4life posted over a year ago
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@invader, ur sayin the wrong things so u should just shut up
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
wolfgirl985 said:
That's sad. Giving up they're virginity at 12. That's throwing their life away. They should have waited until they were atleast 18 or more.
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janaelee said:
So I am 12 almost13 and my boyfriend is 13 and we r thinking of haveing sex and his/my room or in the car. That is what she wonted to do and we might just do it to day.
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xXitachiXx said:
i know a girl that was 11 and had a baby..:P
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posted over a year ago 
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Wtf?
HeartStark posted over a year ago
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Ok that is WAAAAY too young!
PonygirlCurtis7 posted over a year ago
loveandpain said:
well not really i lost mine at 8 by a rapeist some times they dont want to tell things like that 4 the longest time i acted like a slut to hide it then i broke down so dont judge
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I don't think being raped counts as losing your virginity.. I mean it does. But I wouldn't count it. I was raped when I was 7 and I don't count it. I count my ex fiance, which I was 15.
HeartStark posted over a year ago
RnBStar13 said:
My ex lost his virginity at 11 lol
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adultswimperson said:
People who do this don't know what there doing nowadays, how sad for those losers.XD
Lawl.
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Lauren_Mallory said:
Not completely, I've known a couple people who did it at 13. My boyfriend actually lost his virginity at 14, but then again he was drunk (NOT generalizing!).
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posted over a year ago 
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Really? Damn!
Darth-Spearmint posted over a year ago
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Yep. :P My boyfriend's crazy life! Can't believe his sister is still sane!
Lauren_Mallory posted over a year ago
Renarimae said:
Losing your virginity at 15-16 is quite common I know, but 12, that's scary. This is one sexual topic where I'm very conservative. 12?! I was still playing with my Barbie dolls and watching Disney Channel at 12. I personally think it's better to wait till' you're a married adult to have sex and that 12 year olds should be focused on family, friends, chatting, holidays, school, and fun-not drugs, sex, gangs, crime, diseases, babies, and welfare. Kids go through enough crap as it is.
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Brittanagleefan said:
I agree, it's weird. 12 year olds should just stick to masturbating.
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HeartStark said:
This is my opinion, 12 year olds should not be thinking or having sex. I don't think they should be dating either. Having crushes yes, but not boyfriends. I started dating at 13 which is only a year older but being a teenager is different. 12 years old, you should be hanging out with friends. No 12 year old is mature enough to even be in a serious relationship, let alone make the decision to have sex. This is just crazy to me..
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Lovehinagurl44 said:
That's ridiculous,but most pre-teens these days start early.
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Jjojosix said:
So i lost my virginity at twelve im older now and realize it was a mistake but i started my period in like fifth grade already had boobs and hips and curves i look 20 but right now im 15 i was in love but it was a mistake i new i could have gotten pregnat but im bipolar and carless at times, all in all i recomend tht everyone should wait untill they really knows its what they want i mean u only have one virginity to loose so might as wel give it to someone u love when ur the right age
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PonygirlCurtis7 said:
I know a guy who lost it wen he was 10. He did it with his friends 9 yr old sister in her room, at his friends party.
I know another guy who did it wen he was 10 also.
Oh, an I also know ANOTHER guy who was 8, I think, wen he lost his virginity in Alabama.

I know alot of guys who aren't virgins anymore...
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posted over a year ago 
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:O 8!!
Tychyng22 posted over a year ago
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
No it is not "WEIRD" - it is just Too Young.
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mmms54 said:
thats a sad and scary thing happening in america i just can't belive how stupid kids are now and i'm only twellve going on thirteen in 7th grade and i get how stupid it all is
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ravissa said:
I know a 13 year old girl who lost her viriginity to a 23 year old guy....

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