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i dont want to move! :(

for once,this is a serious question. please dont try and make it funny.
my dads company recently lost the building my dad worked at.so they tryed a month to find him a new spot in their other buildings,but couldnt. so now my dad lost his job. i was totally cool with it. times were tough but it was ok. then,they started talking about moving. i was really happy! i've been in the same apartment since i was two,and i always wanted a dog (which the apartment didnt allow) but we will probably move to Colorado. and that made me realize. i really dont want to move! i have so many loved ones here in california. all my family! our school is here,my meetings are here. EVERYTHING would have to go. i really dont want to go.
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QUESTION: how do i deal with this. (for all those haters that are bugging me for forgeting to put up the question <.<)
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
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I'm sorry you have to move, and also that I'm not very good with advice. But read TheNumber8's answer, I think the same way. There are things you're not going to like to happen, but a lot of times these are just things that will have to happen sooner or later. I wish you happiness! :(
User20392 posted over a year ago
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Oh also Heartisalone's answer would also be the only answer I could think of. Sorry again.
User20392 posted over a year ago
 RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
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Heartisalone said:
Don't worry...
You can still keep contact with your friends and loved ones over the phone, right?
There are many ways of contacting them... you shouldn't worry.

I know how it feels. Eventually, you'll get used to where you are.
You will make new friends, and built new relationships.
It's a new beginning. That's what I told myself when it happened to me. :3
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thanks but...its not the same...no one keeps in contact for long anyway. and 80% of emotions are lost in e-mails and texting and stuff any way.
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
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^ Thats true. But if you want emotion, write a letter :p
GoldnSnitch_96 posted over a year ago
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no,80% of emotion is lost with all forms of contact other than face to face
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
TheNumber8 said:
There are things that happen to is in life that we can't control and that we don't always like. They are an inevitable part of life no matter how unfortunate the occasion.
However, it does not mean that all is lost, for there is brightness in even the darkest of nights. Though moving may rip you from the things and the people you love, it will also bring you new people, things, and places to enjoy. You will r brought into new and exciting oppertunities to thrive in and a new lifestyle to discover.
There is sadness, but there is also joy. Do my forget the sad, but focus on the joy.
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Shadowmarioking said:
I'm going to assume you want advice on how to deal with this.

To be honest, you've got to be prepared for everything that might come your way, and open up to new possibilities. This doesn't mean you should give up on everything though. You can still communicate with friends, loved ones, etc. It's not the end of the world, everything will be fine in the long run.
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Ale1152 said:
Unless your dad finds a job, you really don't have a decision. But I'll say one thing, make sure it's something that you don't want to do. We came close to moving to Colorado. The only problem is that I refused. And now, 5 months later, I absolutely regret my decision. Not only is it boring here, but it is taking a toll on my mental health.
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someone_save_me said:
"For once, this is a serious question."

No it isn't, this isn't a damn question at all!

Just get over it dude.
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oh so you wouldnt mind if you lost every single person you knew? and i forgot to put the question mark sorry. but this IS a question
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
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As long as I have my family -y'know, who would be moving with me, and like my boyfriend- I'd be PERFECT! And no it isn't!
someone_save_me posted over a year ago
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well i would HAVE my dad OR my boyfriend. and i forgot to add the question qeez!
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
InquisitiveOwl said:
I feel sad for you...
Moving is not that bad, unless you are used to and love where you live. Fine, go and mourn your heart out then, sheesh.
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XD
Heartisalone posted over a year ago
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yeah. gee thanks. that made me feel sooooo much better -__
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
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DX
Heartisalone posted over a year ago
tabithasb13 said:
Cool story, broski.
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justleeelee said:
This isn't a question.

Idk what to tell you other than just.. it's a part of your life, just accept it.
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gee thanks <.<
RobinFan360 posted over a year ago
dragonrider said:
Don't feel bad. You'll probably get more room if you move into a house. Besides there is many ways to communicate with friends and family.
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adultswimperson said:
This isn't a damn question and you have to deal with what comes your way in life so get the hell over it.
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GoldnSnitch_96 said:
Don't worry! Its not so bad, there are many ways of keeping in touch with your loved ones! Like telegrams! And smoke signals! And the oldest of them all, fax machines!!! But srsly, you will still be able to keep in contact with them. You will still be able to visit them! At least you are only moving interstate, and not to another country! Plus, moving to Colorado may be the best thing you ever did! I heard its really beautiful there, and you may really enjoy it. The situation seems crap now, but give it time, and try to make the most of it. If that fails, wait about 7 years, then move back.

Hope that helped :3
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Also, would everyone please stop treating her like shit? She is going through a lot, and you can't fully understand where she is coming from, so show a little empathy, ya pricks.
GoldnSnitch_96 posted over a year ago
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Agreed with everything you said.
User20392 posted over a year ago
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no prob!
GoldnSnitch_96 posted over a year ago
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