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I have another guy problem... Could you guys help? (Click to read the problem please!)

I confessed to my crush that I like him & for the first 2 days, he was cool with it, (he didn't say if he liked me back or not. His exact words were, "I get that a lot".) But, yesterday, he was acting like an (almost) total jerk; Flirting w/ every girl he could find & completely ignoring me at times. I called my best friend to ask her advice & she said that he's probably trying to make me jealous. He asked this girl to homecoming too (and my friend said that it was probably because I told him I hate dances & that he was afraid to ask cause I would have rejected him, even though I wouldn't have. But he asked this other girl out of pitty, but he's still all flirty with her...) So, my friend said that I should confront him at the dance (I HAVE to go, long story,) and so I'm contemplating on if I should or not. So... could you guys give in your two cents and help me!!! I really like this guy, even if at times he can be a weirdo, other times when it's just me and him, he's perfect. <3
 CullenProperty posted over a year ago
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amethyst44 said:
hmm... tricky. i'll try to help the best i can, even though i'm not good with relationships myself and really am searching for my soul mate but okay off topic... to be honest i've known guys like that and i don't think he's making you jealous at all. I think you're friend is trying to make you stand up for your independence. Though I do think she is right in telling you that you should confront him---I would. Try to ask him, but make it look like you are trying to peer into him (give him squinty eyes as you ask). Nod and try to get him to confess what's been going on in the past few hours, because I think something's going on and he's not willing to tell you. Maybe if you ask him if something's up, he'll confess to you and maybe you'll become closer. This sounds a little crappy after I write it but I hope in someway it helps...
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yeah thanks for answering... it'll help.
CullenProperty posted over a year ago
iluvmypupsx2 said:
Girl, you should go to that dance looking all dressed up and pretty and show him what he's missing. Do not confront him, unless you really truly want to, and after the dance talk to him and see why he was acting like a jerk, but don't go on too strong. Good luck girl! :)
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Thank you so much. I went to the dance & I confronted him & he told me that he only likes me as a friend, and boy was I ready to slap him... But I do still like him & want him to be my boyfriend... but I do think he likes me and he just doesn't want to admitt it to himself.
CullenProperty posted over a year ago
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