Love

answer this question

Love Question

If you could accord a minute to help me...?

I just don't feel good...
I can't love...If that makes sense...
I don't know if anyone can help me,and I doubt anyone will waste they're time helping me.
But I just feel weird...

I will never give my heart to anyone,not anymore...Im going to keep it for me,-Im selfish,but I can't stop what I already am.

I loved alot when I was smaller and I never had the courage to tell the one I loved 'I love you'.
and I doubt I'll ever will.

I've got no confidence and I think I've become a cold heartless person.
And i simply can't change myself.
I wish I'd feel again how to love someone...
The truth is everything ended in tragedy for me.
I guess i'll never be able to tell a simple 'I love you'
I don't even know why I posted this,well I guess I want to see if any of you could help me,though I doubt it...
So...Im asking you,Is there a cure for what I feel?

*
awww! hon u are obviously not a selfish or cold person if you can say all of this! all i have to give you when it comes to advice is: just give it time sweetie :) i really hope you feel better, and i'm sure you will <3 we're about the same age, and i know its rough, but just try to be yourself and relax, cuz i'm sure there is someone out there waiting to fall in love with u :)
volleyblue13 posted over a year ago
*
thanks your words were really great:)
R33n33sm3 posted over a year ago
 R33n33sm3 posted over a year ago
next question »

Love Answers

Glow said:
i know exactly what you feel. i've been through the same period last year.. i thought i couldn't love, anyone who knew me asked me how could i become so unsensitive.... i mean, i am selfish, but i used to be sooo in love before.
so i didn't think of it anymore. i didn't try to fall in love or something like that..
and four months later, if i remember correctly, i felt in love with a guy i thought i will never even like. so, i am sure the same feeling will come to you at the right time and you'll fall in love with someone you didn't expect.
i hope i helped <3
 select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
Missadorable1 said:
u have to open ur heart to the many opportunities available 4 u . this feelin ur feeling is unnatural. u c i gave my heart to somneone b4 and they ripped it out of my chest ssince then ive had other opportunities but they were nothin like my first on. u jave 2 trust urself again b4 u r willing 2 fully trust someone else thatz wut i had to learn if this doesnt help u im srry ive tried loving and it just seems impossible in soooooo many waays.:-(
 select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
*
don't worry,I'm glad that you've actually told me some advices...
R33n33sm3 posted over a year ago
Hellohoudini said:
"This too shall past"...you're way to young to habor these feelings...it sounds like either you've been hurt really bad or you just really havent been in "true love" yet. Give yourself some time and try not to worry or think about it too much...its against human nature not to love or want to be loved.

It will happen when you lest expect it.

 select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
*
Yes,I agree with you,Im too young for this feelings i have right now...
R33n33sm3 posted over a year ago
*
Is there someone you can talk too? I mean 'really' talk too...I'm worried about you now..... :(
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
Hiding 3 comments... click to show.
*
You tell her exactly what you've told us here...and I dont think she'll ignore you.
Hellohoudini posted over a year ago
XDRoseLuvsHP said:
It sounds like you've had some really rough breakups in your past. I'm really sorry.

I wouldn't worry too much about this. Someone will come along one day... and you may change on your own. It sounds like your trust has been broken, but there is still hope. Maybe if you become good friends with someone, you may fall for them eventually.

Your ability to love is still there. It's just gone under extra safety. You've been broken enough times that you are just more careful about letting yourself go. But it will come back. Don't worry. It always comes back :)
 select as best answer
posted over a year ago 
*
awww thanks:) your words really where great!
R33n33sm3 posted over a year ago
next question »
Cookies help us bring you Fanpop. By using Fanpop, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More Got It!