Scared of falling in love

I know it's scary to fall in love, because that puts you in a very vulnerable position. I've had the same problem myself.

I had this 'thing' with a guy, but I was afraid to make it more serious, so I ended it. Later he found himself a girl who wasn't afraid to be more serious, and they're a couple now. I now really regret my decision. After I turned him down I realized how great he was. He was the first guy I liked who made me feel like I could really be myself with. Probably because we were friends first.

Now I truly regret letting him go. If he ever breaks up with her, I can only hope he still likes me. Surely then I won't make the same mistake again.

My advice to you is this: Take things slow, but don't run away. If you feel like he's moving to fast, or getting to close: tell him! Don't turn your back on him just because you might get hurt. Sometimes you have to take some risks to get what you really want. And even if you don't get what you wanted in the end, at least you've tried! That's life! Be honest with yourself and with him.

Most importantly: Remember this:

You might regret what you let slip away.

Good luck, and let me know what happens!
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Umm, tricky!

U could do many things! U could stay away from him and try and not get into him more. Or try and get to know him slowly, this could meen u could feel more at ease with him or start to feel he's not right for u! Also, if u do fall for each other, you could feel comftable asking him to take it slow and not make it serious untill ur ready.

Just ask yourself why you don't want to get into a relationship? Chances r that it won't become serious for a long time if u do go out, expecially if u take things slow.

Try not to worry to much and stay in your comfort zone, that way you wont feel stressed. Just focus ur attention on other things like friends, and leave love to work it out itself!

I havn't been in a relationship so c if any other advise comes up!
Good luck!