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I'm Broken-hearted Help me

My bf told me he cheated on me.He's being honest with me and he told me that he broke up with that girl i even told him i hated him but i was only broken and my heart was torn into pieces i wanted to get revenge on him he said he's going to get paid for his actions he would take anything i decide he realized that he cannot leave me i don't know what to do i really love him and now i'm crying :'(
 sshannahmontana posted over a year ago
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CarolineG said:
Look, I know it's not easey, but you should look at the hole story with the less opinion possible, like, only considering the facts. If you want, I can help. See just the facts, then you can decide if you give him another chance or move on... I would move on, but we are all diferent fom each other, you will have to decide for your self... Just try to think clearly, darling, and everything will settle down...
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Wow! I sounded just like my mother now! O.o
CarolineG posted over a year ago
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Let me know of any news, phrahaps I can help...
CarolineG posted over a year ago
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Yep he broke up with that girl now he's saying that's he is really sorry
sshannahmontana posted over a year ago
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Well, it's really YOUR decision, I sorry, I can't really make the decision to you... How long have you twoo been together?
CarolineG posted over a year ago
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
One of those strangely antiquated, but 'true' sayings is that "The proof is in the pudding," ~

A true amends means he is willing to accept whatever you say or ask whether you get back together or not. If he truly feels remorse his actions will prove by not repeating such behavior ever again.

Liars lie. Cheaters cheat. Sometimes people do not know how to treat someone right, and yes, we all make mistakes & have regrets... but whether you can trust him again, or so soon, is something that remains to be seen.

I'm sorry this happened. Betrayal is one of the hardest hurts to get over. In Dante's Inferno {"The Divine Comedy"} the 9th & last circle of hell was reserved for traitors/betrayers. :(
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One of those strangely antiquated, but 'true' sayings is that "The proof is in the pudding," ~ A true amends means he is willing to accept whatever you say or ask whether you get back together or not. If he truly feels remorse his actions will prove by not repeating such behavior ever again. Liars lie. Cheaters cheat. Sometimes people do not know how to treat someone right, and yes, we all make mistakes & have regrets... but whether you can trust him again, or so soon, is something that remains to be seen. I'm sorry this happened. Betrayal is one of the hardest hurts to get over. In Dante's Inferno {"The Divine Comedy"} the 9th & last circle of hell was reserved for traitors/betrayers. :(
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Judecca, named after the apostle who betrayed Jesus (Judas Iscariot), is the innermost zone of the ninth and final circle of hell: Dante's Inferno - Circle 9 - Cantos 31-34
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
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"REVENGE" will help nothing. Yes, I have been betrayed. I know.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
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Thx i decided i should give him one more chance and then next time it happens i'm gonna break up with him for good but now he jad given me his acciunt passwords and everything should i trust him again
sshannahmontana posted over a year ago
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Forgiveness is always good, but stay on guard now, you are more aware. Trust is earned.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
SeeUV3 said:
your 15 you barley know what love is move on guys arnt everything
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