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I need advice on this guy I really like.

Okay, I'm actually in a tricky situation right now. I'm currently separated and I've been talking to this guy for over a month. He says I'm beautiful, that he's interested in me, asked me if I would be ready for a relationship if the right guy comes around, he says he's not talking to any other girls, he said I'm something special, he told me I can always call him if I need someone, he said he wishes he could have me 7 days a week, tells me private things, says it was a dream to meet me and told me he wants someone to share his life with so he doesn't have to go through them alone. We've met in person twice and it seems to go good but he hasn't made a move yet or a given me a clear signal that he wants to be with me....A little help and advice would be perfect. :)
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How would I tell him that I'm ready for a relationship if he decides to ask without sounding crazy?
feyler11 posted over a year ago
 feyler11 posted over a year ago
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TheDirector said:
According to what you said, it seems he's giving you a million signs that he wants to be with you. Boys only say those kinds of things when they're attracted to you in some way, shape, or form. One thing's for sure. He's definitely taken an interest in you.

He's probably waiting for you to give him a few signs back. Some boys will hesitate to ask you out if they're not sure you're attracted to them too. They'll wait and see if you'll make the first move. It's kind of like a game, really.

You could nonchalantly bring up the question he asked and answer in your own way. For instance, he asked you if you'd be ready for a relationship if the right guy came around. You could bring up that question, and then tell him you have your answer. That would be a good stepping stool. He'd take notice of that, I'm sure.

Be flirty. Give him something to work with. If he likes you back, he'll reciprocate and flirt in return. If it's meant to be, things will fall into place. Meet him personally a few more times. Get to know him better. Ask questions. Either he'll ask you out, or you can sum up the courage and ask him out when you're comfortable. Don't be hasty. Play it cool. Wait and see what the results will be if you're the one to start the flirting. If you play your cards right, you and he will most likely end up together eventually.

Good luck.
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TARDIS-Granger said:
He seems to really like you.I think You should meet him in person a few more times and if he does not ask you by then but still seems to like you then you will just have to work of the courage to ask him.Good luck:)
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He's even told me he likes me too but it just struck me off that he hasn't told me up front he wants to be with me. Thank You so much though for your answer. :)
feyler11 posted over a year ago
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glad to help hope you will get togerther!
TARDIS-Granger posted over a year ago
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thank you. =) i hope so too.
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