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I broke up with this guy but he keeps asking me if we are on a break. What do I do?

So I broke up with him because he was possesive and wouldn't let me hang out with any guys. Basically he was controlling who I talked to. After we broke up he asked me if we were on a break and I said no we aren't. He keeps asking me that same question likes he's desperate to get back with me, but my friends who sit next to him in Home Ec say he bitches about me all the time. Hiw do I get him to accept the fact that we broke up?
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I am glad you are not have'n any more probs Sweetie... just remem~ to be careful :)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
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Thanks. He seems to be over me so I'm thankful for all the help and suggestions from everyone.
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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taanish786 said:
i think the best way is to talk to him about whatever u have faced ,u don't like his dominating nature or your life has turned into hell with him.....so clearify this thing to him that u don't want to be with him anymore....when ever u see him or talk to him it reminds u all those moment which u have faced......so tell him that u dont want to be with him anymore....
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Thanks for that. I'll try. :)
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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hope that goes fine :)
bri-bri12 posted over a year ago
mindless_luvr said:
Ummmmm Let's See.............................TELL HIM STRAIGHT TO HIS DAMN FACE!!! "LOOK WE BROKE UP ND ITS OVER SO LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!!!" Its Very Simple!!!
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I've tried that but he keeps god damn annoying me. I'm trying to ignore him so I hope that helps.
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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Oh Ummmm.......Call The Police Nd Say That Yhu Are Being Harassed Because Of A Break Up. Thats All That I Can Tell Yhu
mindless_luvr posted over a year ago
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Thanks but I don't think I need to call the cops.
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
kristel_bb said:
I know how you feel girl(: my ex was the same exact way. what I did was told him how I feel & the reason why I broke up with him. I talked it through with him. I dont think he really understood that well but he got the hint. He would never let me hangout with ANY boys, even the ones that I wouldnt ever like more than a good friend. And if he still keeps asking, ignore him, tell his friends to help him. I hope this helped(: it worked for me
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Thanks I'm trying that now. But what really pissed me off was that he called me a Slut, Frigid and a Whore. Then he asked again to get back together and I was like "Excuse me?" So anyway when he asks me now I just walk away.
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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Wow what an ass. Hes a terrible guy, no offence. But a guy that actully likes/loves you wouldnt call a slut, whore, &frigid. My ex called me a skank, &im like does it look like I give a shit, no now fuck off go find some other girl that will deal with all your shit. Then he started to pissed off &acted like an ass. I know I did to but he deserved it. I walked out, &his friends texted me later that night, & I told them the storyy. So im glad I moved on. & good idea. Also sorry for my language, and goodluck[:
kristel_bb posted over a year ago
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It's Great now he's shut up and,left me alone.
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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Good[:
kristel_bb posted over a year ago
Sinna_Hime_chan said:
You don't. You cannot make someone understand or "get" something that they don't and he sounds like this is his own process and part of that is denial.

Now what you CAN do and what IS your choice is whether it wise or something you choose to do to be nice or straight forward or blunt or ignore. I ususally start out nice and try to keep it that way but end up in a combo. lol

There is no magic way, but you do your best. I think you did the right thing and I think he will just have to deal with and if he can't you will have to watch out or he might get a lil crazy on ya. (Some guys like this do).
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Thanks a lot for the advice. He's left me alone now so I think he's got the message.
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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I wish I could say the same...lol.
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
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Well good luck with whatever your facing with them.
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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Thank you. :)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted over a year ago
hgfan5602 said:
Just accept the fact that it's true. And tell your BF, "I don't think we do very well together. Maybe we should take a little break from each other."

That should solve your problem!
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Thnx. Everyone is soooo helpful!!! :)
Nicolicious posted over a year ago
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No problem.
hgfan5602 posted over a year ago
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