What do you do when......</3

I told a girlfriend once, and she never spoke to me again. I honestly do not know except that it seems you are a very good friend. It seems you care a lot and you even ask for advice! Kudos!

Sometimes I just plant seeds of doubt when I know something like that for certain that is delicate, but I really have to know. When you are talking you could say, "Gee hope he wasn't cheating on you," or "Gosh, sure sounds like he was making excuses. Wonder what he was doing with all his time. Did you ever think maybe he was mess'n around?" & if she asks "Why would you say that or think that?" you could shrug and say, "It's just one possibility that makes sense." I don't know. Then you aren't lieing but you aren't putting yourself too at risk either. It's just an idea. I honestly do not know, but you could try that if you feel you need to if it comes up in conversation next time.