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How old were you when you got your first boyfriend or girlfriend?

That includes romantic experiences etc. Just tell the smallest thing the longest ago you can remember, count everything in. No "it wasn't really serious" or anything. Pleeeaaase. I know I sound like...

I'm just wondering about that. I really need some answers to know the normal age for that for normal people. Because in the medias everone is making out at age 12-13 and it's the same with the people I know.

So, please, and thank you
 Azoe posted over a year ago
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FairuzBones said:
never had a boyfriend, I was busy with studying and having fun with my best friends :)
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posted over a year ago 
jameswilson said:
I was first asked out when I was 14, but didn't have my first kiss until 16 (with a different guy). I've only had two boyfriends though - and only one serious (the one I'm currently dating).

Don't let the media shape your life! Decide what feels like the right time for you - don't ever do anything you feel uncomfortable doing :]
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
I was a baby and sat in a playpen with some kid. O_O
I was told he was my boyfriend. (lol-whatever-Inever saw the kid again I don't think. Maybe we hugged each other. Foreshadow-much?)

..pre-kindergarten-kindergarten. I had the same boyfriend in first grade too (so for a year)! Wow.

I don't remember much of the lil boyfriends I might have had in gradeshcool, except one- Chris Carasco, lol. It did not last long (third grade maybe) but we held hands. lol I remember he was always wanting me & trying to kiss me! lol I even was bf/gf with my best gay-guy friend! LOL We would play "Star Wars" together.

I was 13-14 before I had more heated relationships, it was ever something pulled on way and another before that, feeling awkward, wishing, dreaming, writing. I even had a fictional diary. lol

Yes, my first intimate bf was 13, but I look back and think that is too young. It started out as movies, mall, water park, amusement parks, school dances..

Around 15-17 would have been a better age, I am sure.

I wanted practice. I was fearful, I was nervous. I thought f practice, practice, practice makes better then I should get a move on so I could get over fears and have a head start. No one thought I would be the first of my friends to lose her virginity. All my friends had cars by 13 and they were cool sports cars too. I was off and running from fear to flight and I don't know if it helped me. I am just surprised I did not get pregnant. No one knew the guys I usually picked. I picked them older and ones not going to my school. Did it make it better? It's all choices. I think I made some bad ones.

There were a few in there... one went to my school. He liked me, but we did not stay together because his friend was still hung up on me, and he was trying to do right by his friend too. I understood. (I ran into him years later as an adult & he said he always thought of me & regretted it)... Ahhh
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[b]I was a baby[/b] and sat in a playpen with some kid. O_O 
I was told he was my boyfriend. (lol-whatever-Inever saw the kid again I don't think. Maybe we hugged each other. Foreshadow-much?) 

..pre-kindergarten-kindergarten. I had the same boyfriend in first grade too (so for a year)! Wow. 

I don't remember much of the lil boyfriends I might have had in gradeshcool, except one- Chris Carasco, lol. It did not last long (third grade maybe) but we held hands. lol I remember he was always wanting me & trying to kiss me! lol I even was bf/gf with my best gay-guy friend! LOL We would play "Star Wars" together. 

I was 13-14 before I had more heated relationships, it was ever something pulled on way and another before that, feeling awkward, wishing, dreaming, writing. I even had a fictional diary. lol 

[b]Yes, my first intimate bf was 13[/b], but I look back and think that is too young. It started out as movies, mall, water park, amusement parks, school dances.. 

[b]Around 15-17 would have been a better age[/b], I am sure. 

I wanted practice. I was fearful, I was nervous. I thought f practice, practice, practice makes better then I should get a move on so I could get over fears and have a head start. No one thought I would be the first of my friends to lose her virginity. All my friends had cars by 13 and they were cool sports cars too. I was off and running from fear to flight and I don't know if it helped me. I am just surprised I did not get pregnant. No one knew the guys I usually picked. I picked them older and ones not going to my school. Did it make it better? It's all choices. I think I made some bad ones. 

There were a few in there... one went to my school. He liked me, but we did not stay together because his friend was still hung up on me, and he was trying to do right by his friend too. I understood. (I ran into him years later as an adult & he said he always thought of me & regretted it)... Ahhh
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.. and yes, I have a serious relationship now and a GREAT boyfriend... I am blessed. He was the opposite of me & I am glad he made better decisions than me and did not screw up his life because he is the sweetest most special person and I was the one blessed by that.
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RavenRox2 said:
I had my first boyfriend in 5th grade so when i was 11 (i gotheld back in 2nd) and we dated for 2 months and we only kissed once.... well it wasn't a kiss. Out lips never touched we just..smashed heads :3 I had one in 6 grade for 1 month. He never really liked me though...

Now I'm 14 and i've been single since i was 12 :( <///3
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Spottedleaf13 said:
I've never had a boyfriend, but I wasted 5 years of my life on a guy who didn't even like me.
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SMacked_lover said:
I'm sixteen, and still never been in love... *sigh* But all my friends have been in and out of it since about seventh grade, and we're all in band!!!
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posted over a year ago 
annwardfan11 said:
Well people may have boyfriends and girlfriends around the age twelve or thirteen but that doesn't mean they're kissing all the time at that age. But lots of kids do get their first relationship when they are around twelve and for some its even younger than that. But I advice that u dont decide to be in a relationship until you're older because you shouldn't take on something until you can handle it....relationships and love can be painful...
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ecpjll said:
Technically 13-but I never got what I considered my first "real" bf until I was 19.
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gaaralover101 said:
well i was 12 wen i first gt my bf nd he was very sweet in da begining but then he gt abusive but i have a better one now
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Tamar20 said:
I guess I was 14 or 15 I don't really recall.
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posted over a year ago 
totaldramafan96 said:
never had a boyfriend or girlfriend...i wish tho..

dam'it :c
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posted over a year ago 
Sasukes_Gurl said:
I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone around me is getting boyfriends left, right and centre, but they end up breaking up after like a week. So I'd rather wait for something more serious and special, than go out with some jackass (which unfortunately, a lot of girls do, they sell themselves short) There's no rush nor is there a 'normal' age anyway :)
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posted over a year ago 
KatiiCullen94 said:
Well, two actually...

My first offical boyfriend was when I was 14, he was 16. We lasted 3 weeks.

Then Aaren, whom I'm dating now, I love him very much. We've been together 2 months.
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posted over a year ago 
JBfan516 said:
12...actually no I was in first grade haha it was a cute little thing but i had my first quick little kiss at 12
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posted over a year ago 
taytrain97 said:
Never had a boyfriend. There isn't an age to start dating, honey, it's whenever you feel like you're comfortable enough to get out there.
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posted over a year ago 
CrazyForKT said:
I had my first girlfriend and got my first kiss at the age of 16
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posted over a year ago 
Nana13 said:
Well I had my fist boyfriend wen I wuz 11 but it turn out to be a bad or awful relationship :( but its ok.. :)
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MegaraxHades17 said:
I was thirteen, going into grade 10 when I had my first boyfriend. I met him at a friend's birthday party at the end of grade 9 and we hit it off. He was a year older than me and ended up being my first kiss. Sadly it ended about 3 weeks later because of my religious beliefs. Oh well!
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posted over a year ago 
zeina1997 said:
i've never had a boyfriend not because i'm not wanted it's just that i can't see any relationship with these boys they don't love me for what i am it's for what i look like
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posted over a year ago 
ArchAngelGirl29 said:
at the age of 14!!!!!!
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posted over a year ago 
tswizleswifty said:
I had a crush at 10 so when he said he liked me i totaly believed him. But he wouldnt admitt it to anyone, so everyone thought i had made it up to become popular. But he kept sending me emails saying how pretty i was, but would never admitt it to anyone. So i finally stood up to him and wrote a song about our break up.
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posted over a year ago 
xenriquegrl said:
I dunno if this is really considered a boyfriend, but I got a guy in fifth grade and half of sixth grade, wich means 10 to 11 yrs old. He called me almost every day but he was a fake! He lied to me, we never kissed and he called me his half-girlfriend cuz he was dating someone else. So in other words I let him cheat on me. I was so stupid back then. After, I went to his school and he pretended to his friends that he didn't know me cuz he was really popular. Today he pretends like he deosn't know me or bullies me when he has the chance. But I defend myself and now he denies ever talking to me. The lesson I learned, is to not depend on a guy whatsoever to make you happy and to not worry about getting into a realtionship young cuz it always ends up falling apart! So, don't focus much on getting into a relationship when ur in school cuz it almost never lasts!
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MissO1116 said:
I was practically going out in 1st grade, but he moved... well im 13 and i had my 1st kiss and had my official 1st bf this year. Not all 13 & 12 year olds are making out just the ones that spread around their love life stories
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I was practically going out in 1st grade, but he moved... well im 13 and i had my 1st kiss and had my official 1st bf this year.  Not all 13 & 12 year olds are making out just the ones that spread around their love life stories
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RnBStar13 said:
14 going on 15 :)
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posted over a year ago 
x-menobsessed26 said:
I'm 15 and I've still never had one, and don't plan on it until I'm out of college, so I've got a while to be single.
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Marinulitsi said:
ahem... i guess i have to be honest...
i got my first boyfriend in 2nd or 3rd grade i know i was really young and everything but its not like we did anything apart from kissing.and of course not french kisses since we were only kids and didn't know about things like that.anyway you might think i am one of those girls who are always desperate to have a boyfriend but actually i am not really into the relationship thing. i mean, most guys (even the hot ones)who ask me out get rejected cause... i dont know i just ...dont really care about guys unless i really really like someone.anyway,what i mean is that you should not press yourself to get a boyfriend just so you are not single.you should get a boyfriend only when you feel ready and you are sure this is the guy you want to be with you know? for me it wouldn't matter even if i got my first boyfriend after university as long as i was sure of my choice.but you better like your 1st boyfriend\girlfriend cause you will remember it for the rest of your life and since you ask for details about each one's personal experience, i have something to add. 3 months ago i saw the boy i mentioned before (my 1st boyfriend)and he literally made my heart skip a beat.i hadnt seen him for 4 years since he doesnt live here and he was sooooo taller than me when the last time i saw him we were about the same height, and he wasnt as thin as he used to be he was more muscular and we talked about our lives anD everything (and he is soooo hot :P)and so cute and i also ... well i think i've said enough and i hope i've been helpful :))
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sehdt said:
I was 11 or 12 it was in high school we only were together when we saw each other at school but it was fun.
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-Wednesday- said:
well i sorta had a boyfriend when i was 9 or 10 but it wasnt like a official relationship but everyone said we were dating so we just went along with it

but
when i had a official boyfriend was when i was 12 but that didnt last long like a week
:*(
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posted over a year ago 
londieluvzroc said:
I Had Mii Fuhst BoiiFrienn In 2ndd Gradee Nd I Had Mii Fuhst Kiss In 4thh Gradee...Nd Mii Fuhst Tongue Kiss In 5thh Gradee, Nd Now Im In 8thh Gradee...So Umm Dha Numbah Of Bf'z I Had In All Whuxz 6.Buht I Whuxz Close TEwh Goin Out Widd 2 Othah Boii'z....!
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xMrsNiallHoranx said:
I was 8. I didn't have a clue what love was so when an 11 year old guy asked me out, i couldn't refuse. I dumped him about 2 months later though.

:P
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Lisa02127kj said:
My bff (he's a boy) moved out to his hometown in 5th grade. He came back in 8th grade. After few days, he asked me out on 26 of june,2010. I said,'YESSS'. We were 14. We were the first couple in our grade. Everyone stared, giggled and envied us. We were together even when there was a possibility that he might move out again in march 2011. He didn't. I confessed my crush I had on a jerk since 3rd grade. I never wanted a relationship with that jerk, but he got upset. I told the 'jerk' about my crush. I was happy that my bf did stay, then i noticed something. He had stop talking, he ignored me. It was my fault, i left him for the jerk. In september 2011, he left. His name makes me cry, i can never think of dating again. I still love him.
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And we kissed many times
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KingSimba4Ever9 said:
I was 13. And I still have the same bf now.
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ord said:
I was 14, heading towards 15.
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retrolove83 said:
I guess technically I was 12-but it only lasted for one day. And we didn't even speak to each other, see each other, nothing. Then when I was 13 i used to hold hands and cuddle with this guy that lived down the street from me when we'd be outside hanging with friends. Until he tried to feel up my ass without asking first, I kinda "dumped" him after that. Then I had my 1st kiss at age 14, then nothing at all with a guy again until I was 19 years old.
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posted over a year ago 
Gumball17 said:
My first gf, as well as first kiss, was when I was 11.
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posted over a year ago 
ILOVEJCD said:
FIRST KISS: kindergarten
i first made out in 5th grade
first boyfriend 14
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Angelkeke said:
i had my first bf when i was in 2st grade!!! lol i guess u dont really call that dateing since you really dont understand it at that age.
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suppose to be 2nd sorry!!!!
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Castalinia said:
i haven't ever had a real boyfriend. :'(
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Dayana-Sustaita said:
My first boyfriend was in second grade but tat was a lil cute couple thing but I didnt really get into a relationship until I was 11 nd he was the sweetes thing ever but until one day he started to be too agresive wth me nd trying to control me in wat to do nd wat to say soo I dumped him we were together for 2months but until now I dont hav one
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faiyah226 said:
15 and I had my first kiss when I was 16.
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posted over a year ago 
NCISLuverjk93 said:
Honestly, I didn't have my first relationship until I was 17. I'm turning 19 next month and am still with that person.

Everyone's different. There's nothing wrong with not dating in your preteens or early teens. Hell, I've known people that haven't had their first boyfriend until their twenties.

And people that make fun of you for that, are ignorant.
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ILoveSonic21 said:
Preschool, then kinder, then 1st and so on every year i get asked out or i find out that someone likes me XD
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camlla178 said:
i had one in 1st grade well acually he was insane with me and i liked him ahh memories
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IntrepidKeris said:
Well I was asked out last September by my guy friend on a bus ride back from a middle school event and it was really awkward. I was 14 at the time. I initially sad I'd think about it, but I ended up saying no for two reasons: 1. I can't date until I'm 16 and 2. I thought we were getting closer as friends in the event, so it felt weird and out of place.

Meanwhile at like 12 or 13 I decided to be mentally dating Matt Smith(he's adorable and perf so).
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TRedMutt said:
I was in kindergarden walking down to my first class, this really hot girl that came to my house every week told me to come in to the girls bathroom, then we went in the stall and kissed for 3 minutes until my friend came in and peaked under the stall..
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Mrs-X said:
13. I can't count before that because I think my previous relationships were much closer to friendship and I was way too young to truly understand what it was like to have a boyfriend
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posted over a year ago 
FlightofFantasy said:
I had my first boyfriend when I was 17. We were together for six months. I haven't had a boy- or girlfriend since then (I'm 22). Which is totally fine by me, I very very rarely get crushes or have romantic feelings, except on fictional characters, which doesn't count. ;)
I'm happy being single, and honestly, most people I know who are in relationships are unhappily in love, so I feel pretty good about being single. :)
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PlayingWithFire said:
I had my first girlfriend when I was 17.
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bellatrix114 said:
I still haven't had one and I'm 17
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posted over a year ago 
clemsams said:
12-First Girlfriend 13-First kiss
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posted over a year ago 
eyashnacutie said:
I am 13 and I got a bf about 1month ago
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dgbg said:
i was 12 in the sixth grade she actually liked me first before i eventually caught on.
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shaneoohmac13 said:
I WAS 12 YEARS OLD AND SHE WAS 13 YEARS SHE IS THE ONE THAT ASKED ME OUT, SHE WAS TALLER THEN ME I HAD TO STAND ON THE STREET CRUB JUST TOO KISS HER
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ChiliPepperLuv said:
I was actually 14, and he was 15. It started before Spring Break. He had flirted with me. I wondered what he was doing, because he was acting strange. He then told me that he was flirting with me and asked me to be his girlfriend. I thought about it through Spring Break, and then I decided to take the step and become his girlfriend.
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posted over a year ago 
nsr12bae said:
Well, it pretty much does depend on the age and if both kids
Are mature enough to handle a relationship. I had my first boyfriend when I was 12. (I'm 14 lol) when we were 12 we had our first kiss about 5 months after we were together. It depends on the guy when you will have yours. If he is not doing anything, feel free to start the kiss! If he loves you he will join in ;). On my birthday (so I was 13) he came over and we just hung out in my room. He said he loved me and he always wanted to be together and we kissed...a lot (making out lol) normally we always just kiss but we do Makeout sometimes. Honestly, I would let him start the kiss for a Makeout time unless you know you can start it and it's the right time.

Hope this helped and good luck!
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