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Karthigesh said:
I have to talk about 2 things in my answer but I will start with answering your question. You can say it to him back BUT ONLY if you feel the same way about him, DO NOT say it back to him if you don't because that will lead to a whole host of problems. I know it's hard to say no when a guy says that to you for fear that your rejection might hurt him, but you have to be honest. So if you really feel the same way, tell him so, but if you don't, then truthfully tell him, he would appreciate your honesty.
Second thing is, from the other answers, I do agree that a guy has to do certain things when he is with or around a girl, firstly, take the initiative and also to do things before he is asked and I know women appreciate that. As a guy I also have noticed that guys these days aren't doing as much as they can for a girl, and women are getting increasingly frustrated having to take the first step with things time and time again. It is alright for a girl to take the first step once in a while, but not all the time.
As for this "I Love You" thing, I feel it should not be determined by gender. To me it should be determined by feelings. I understand that a girl might be afraid to say it first because a loser guy might take advantage of the fact she likes him more, but if your guy is sweet and you know that he means what he says, you gals shouldn't worry about telling him how you feel :) Love isn't about who says things first, is about feeling the same thing, and wanting to tell the person the first chance they get. If I love someone, I would never waste a day to tell them :)
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