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5 months

its been 5 months that my boyfriend passed away. i feel devistaed i dont know what to do. i feel like he just passed minutes ago in my arms all over agian but at the same time i feel like he passed away ages ago. i dont know what to do.i cant sleep at night and i cant stay awake because i feel like i cant keep my eyes open not looking into his eyes. i can get out of bed. imm lost. he looks over me in heaven but thats not enough. im dead inside and lost. what can i do to take away this pain?
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hmm ... how are you on the computer if you can't get out of bed?
kairi13050 posted over a year ago
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i guess she's got a laptop, honey xx
hontwilightfan posted over a year ago
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yes im in the laptop.
lililove15 posted over a year ago
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Karthigesh said:
I cannot say I understand what you are going through and I won't pretend I do either. I cannot imagine how you feel either, but in time things will get better. I know it might sound ridiculous of me saying this to you, but it really does.

He will ALWAYS be a part of you, forever. Keep his memory alive inside your heart and as you go through life, remember him. Moving on, does not mean forgetting the past, it means keeping the memories and moving to a new path. I'm sure when he was with you, he told you so many wonderful things, and he must have loved you deeply.

Take that love and turn it into something amazing dear, I'm sure no matter what you do in life, he will always be proud of you. I think he would want you to use his memory as a catalyst to do something wonderful and for you to be happy in your life.

He will always be a guardian angel to you, looking over you. You have been through 5 months already, tough and devastating as it is, you are still standing right now. You are strong and you are fighting, keep doing this and slowly, make peace with what happened and try to be happy. He would want you to. As a guy, one thing I cannot let happen is for a girl to cry, especially if it is because of me. Imagine an angel, brushing those tears off, lifting your chin and telling you to do your best to be happy.

You will be okay, I truly believe this fact. Keep his memory alive, carry him in your heart and let the positive memories shape and guide you until forever ends.

Love Is Undying...

Take care of yourself and if you need anyone to talk to, we will always be here for you :) I know I will. I barely know you but my heart goes out to you because love connects people like no other emotions can...
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i know we havent meet and i know that we dont know any thing about each other but those words were pawerful even though there are poeple in the world that do understand and have been in the same possition as i've been, they dont know what toi say. i really appreciate it.
lililove15 posted over a year ago
Hinata-Snow said:
In a way, the pain will never go away.(I'm writing a story about a girl who's girlfriend died.) But as time passes, the pain will fade. It helps if you concentrate on the good times you had with him, to help you move on. Never forget him, but don't let his death destroying you, I imagine he wouldn't want that.

You have a long road ahead of you, and I wish you the best. Signed, Hinata-Snow
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IshanUltra said:
I am very sorry about that lilly.i understand u love him.but accept the reality.everybody have to die.its ur past. Do not destroy ur future for the past.if u destroy ur self like that,ur bf willbe dissapointed
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spunkyonyx said:
Idk if my boyfriend died i wouldnt be far behind!
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You shouldn't think that way, life is precious, without life there is no love, so to keep love alive, we should live and preserve the memory.
Karthigesh posted over a year ago
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If my boyfriend died it would kill me! there would be no meaning for me!
spunkyonyx posted over a year ago
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hes whats keeping me here on this earth!! ive lost almost all my family already! and Hes like the only person that loves me anymore other then my best freind alijandro!
spunkyonyx posted over a year ago
Hellohoudini said:
I'm so sorry that you had to go thru something like this...but you have to remember that dying is a part of life...and your boyfriend wouldnt want you to let this stop you from living life...he would want you to go on and find happiness....you need to force yourself to get up and get out and be with people that love you...in time..the pain will fade and when you think of him ...you will remember the good times and the love that the two of you shared.

Head up and remember the smiles and laughter. ♥
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f0rced2becaptor said:
heyy i'm really sorry. i honestly don't know how youu feel, but i can sympathise. the one thing you need to always remember is that you WILL see him again and he wouldnt like to see you not looking after yourself. he will be feeling terrible and you dont want that. just don't do anything stupid and keep talking. :) we're here for youu k??
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hontwilightfan said:
honestly, i have no idea what it must be like to lose some one so precious, but i DO know what its like to feel like you can't live on, but i found a reason too and people to live on for, I have a hobby, but it's more like a career, i love it soooo much, maybe you should find something similar that u can love as much as i love ballet and have a reason to live again! there's ALWAYS some one to talk to, even if they are online so if you need someone to leen on, we'll catch you!
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