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It's such a cliche....

I am starting to have... scrap that....I have feelings for a friend of mine and I've been feeling that way since just before Christmas 2010. The thing is it feels so cliche! I can't get him out of my head. Each time his hand brushes mine all I think is how warm his hand is and whenever he smiles at me I think of the sun, because when he smiles his face lights up and it is so beautiful! Oh God, did I just type that?!?!?! Is this normal or have I benn reading too many romance books.
 Book-Freak posted over a year ago
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Karthigesh said:
It isn't cliche at all. Trust me I was a skeptic like you once. When I heard people say oh they really make you feel like you are the only person in the world and when you think of them your heart flutters. I didn't buy that one bit, but that was until I fell for someone. It really was all that and so much more.

The thing is the feeling is so distinct, so unique that it is it's own form of perpetual energy. Suddenly the thought of that person makes you want to break all the shackles that held you back and suddenly you feel like you are invincible. That is what love does to people, it makes you stronger, it makes you better, it makes you a fighter.

All that you are feeling right now isn't cliche at all, romance isn't cliche and neither is passion. These emotions are part of life and it is what makes life have that spark that makes it so worthwhile sometimes, especially when things aren't going so well. Some people call it magic, some people call it science, but I call it...simply...Love :D

Embrace those emotions, don't think of them as being cliche and weird. You have liked this person for a while now and that isn't something common nor cliche. Your heart wants this person, it's almost as if you and this person are 2 completely separate and broken pieces of a puzzle but somehow when they are around you, you both fit, to make a beautiful piece of abstract art that is totally unique to you.

Take those emotions you feel and run with it. May it lead you to love, and through love, bring you happiness. I wish you all the best :)
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posted over a year ago 
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Thank you! The thing is, I'm fourteen. I didn't expect to feel anything like this and because He is one of my closest friends and that makes everything so much more complicated. I can't stare at Him because we are usually next to each other, or close by. And I have no idea if He likes me! This is so confusing!
Book-Freak posted over a year ago
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