I think i'm in love with a guy who hates me...

Hate is such a strong word, I doubt he hates you, maybe he just feels he can't click with your personality, it's nothing against who you are. I however highly recommend NOT kissing him just like that.

Firstly you should apologize to him for that whole "my friend pretended to be me" thing, because I think he was quite hurt by it, knowing he was somehow lied to. You cannot control who you like and what your heart is drawn to, that does not make you a bad person neither is it wrong in any way. That is what is so magical about love, that feeling of just being drawn to someone and you don't know why.

My advice is this. After apologizing, talk to him, as you, and be real with him. Let him see the real you and clear up any weird misconceptions he has or rather, had about you before. It's important for him to see who you really are because I feel you are someone special and you must let him see that about you.

After talking to him, slowly open up to him about your feelings. Taking things slow is best because if you dive head-on, he will get freaked and you would probably regret later on for doing that. Patience is key even though the wait drives you insane sometimes lol, believe me, I of all people know what this feeling is like.

So just talk to him, take things slow, let him see the real you and then tell him how you feel. It might take a while, but who knows, this person could be the one you end up with in the future and all these small incidents in the past would be just a beautiful memory that eventually led to the crossing of both of your hearts.

I wish you all the best....

From a hapless, hopeless romantic LOL :)

have you known him all your life the date him!

This how we(boys)talk and show our love.its not mean that he hates u. This is how he express it.you should apologise to him and tell him that you love him.he is still weak for you.trust me.

i doubt that he hates you. All guys are mean to girls but sometimes it means they like you sometimes it doesn't. But if u want to find out, just simply ask one of your friends to have a chat with him and see what he thinks of you.