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Please help me :'(

I've started to feel suicidal and majorly depressed all because my boyfriend left me a week ago. I just can't take it and I don't know what to do.... please help?
 RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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Karthigesh said:
Hey, calm down dear, I understand that not having that person there anymore is such a horrible feeling but it's not worth putting your own self in jeopardy. I don't know what happened to you and him, but that part of you is in the past already. Don't look at it from a bad standpoint, take it as a positive, learn from it and grow.

You are a sweet girl and I bet you have lots of things going for you. Time will heal all wounds, music does too, so listen to something, let it all out and start fresh.

Trust me, you will find the right guy really soon and he is probably on his way to you right now, trying to reach you as fast as he can. I know you feel really down right now, but try to cheer up, life is magnificent and one guy will never change that nor who you are.

It will be his loss for letting you go, this I can tell for a fact, so don't look back dear, look forward and to all the things that await you. Sadness will pass, wounds will heal, but your heart, and what it stands for, is forever :)

I really do wish you all the best, it is never easy but you will be fine, if you ever need someone to talk to on FanPop, I shall offer you my ears, anything to make someone happy haha, that's just the kind of guy I am LOL

Take care :)
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Thank you so much for the advice, that made me feel a lot better :) and he left me because he said he needs to sort his life out right now cause it's a mess and he said he might hurt me from his mistakes so he left me because he didn't want to hurt me. And thank you again, it means a lot to me, take care too <3
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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*blinks* O_O Karthigesh... you're a.. guy?! wow i would have never expected such great advice from a guy ^_^ er... uhm. well. yeah XD
FireByrd15 posted over a year ago
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I've been under the wrong impression this whole time as well! "o
ButteBaby_K posted over a year ago
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i was reading and telling myself that girl would make a really good friend ,but when u said guy ..haha u give me hope that guys could make a true friendship ^_^
reebaila posted over a year ago
skillet_luvr said:
I'm really sorry you're having to go through this. I was feeling exactly like you are a year ago. Suicide isnt worth it. I attemped overdose and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I know its hard to deal with being lonely, but there are tons of other guys that would love to be with you and will be with you forever. It's hard to think that right now, but its true. I made it through, You can do it too. Just need to be strong. Hope you feel better. :)
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PaisleyPark said:
Aw. :(

I'm sorry you're feeling so sad.


I know right now, it may feel like he's the only guy in the world.

But there are so many more. There is a better guy for you out there.

Have you tried talking to your friends or family about how you're feeling?

That might help.
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He told me he wanted to be with me forever though and it's really confused me. And I haven't but every time I mention him to my family they just go insane, they don't like me talking about him but I kind of need to, I haven't spoken to anyone about it yet.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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They know we've broken up though.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
Chaann94 said:
Go to your friends for help! Go out and do something fun so that you'll forget him! Plus, they know you better than the fanpoppers on here, so they'll know how to cheer you up!

Plus, boyfriends are useless! The only one that matters is the one who will become your husband. And you're way too young(17 is really young in my opinion) to let a boyfriend have this much impact on you! Trust me, he's not worth it!
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Thank you :)
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
writer67 said:
he has been dazzles by a aprkly thing, he will never know of the treasure he has just lost, time to get back up and back to work* dont let a man turn you, just cause he wants to play [bitch]. your better and better you found how true he is before you were married with kids. your freee. go make new freinds. dont feel to bad as even you have taken it like a man,join a club,play a game of pool or learn something new. its not time to be a turtle stuck on your back crying cause you cant get up, you can do it, and peace be with you;-]
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Thank you :) it's like I can't stop thinking about him and it's annoying me, when I go to certain places they remind me of the times when we used to go there when we were together, when songs come on the radio that remind me of him, it's like I can't seem to escape, it's like memories of us being together are everywhere and I just want to be happy :'(
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
inexplicable said:
I know exactly how you feel right now and I tell you what: STOP thinking about suicide. That´s the worst idea ever. Try to find something that can keep you busy and won´t remind you of your pain. Sometimes people discover new talents, when they go trough situations like this. All this will be over. Sooner or later. Believe me. The most important thing you need is patience and support. It could be helpful to talk to somebody about your feelings.
Good luck.
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Hmmm well that's going to be hard cause where I work now I used to go to class and he was in my class so when I go in the building I just have flashbacks of when we were together and stuff, it's so sad. Everything seems to remind me of him..songs, places, pictures...it's hard to forget about him. And I do need support but my family haven't been really giving me any :'( but thank you anyway.
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
daisypie1234 said:
dont do it we love u too much just forget about him honstly he was probly not worth ur time belive me dont do it ur mom,dad,family,friends and i will miss u too much love u sis for being there for me <<<<<<333333 and be happy not sad :)
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Thank you :)
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
Kassaremidylynn said:
Okay...first.


Do NOT kill yourself.

I've gotten my heart broken, my best friends have, my freakin' mother has...we're all still alive.

Life goes on. I know it's harsh, and believe me, I know it hurts in the beginning. I couldn't stop thinking about him and how horrible I felt. My friends felt the same way.

You'll move on though. I'm so much happier now, and my friends have moved onto different people as well. Maybe not completely, but the process is slow. The point is, you do go on. Life happens, but don't give up on life. There's so much more to live for than one teenage heartbreak. There's so much and if you take your life, you'll miss out.

Think about it: meeting your ACTUAL love of your life, getting married, having kids, getting a career, traveling, college, meeting new friends, making fun of your friends when stupid stuff happens to them...

Just hold in there. It's gonna hurt, but I promise you'll feel better one day, probably soon.
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posted over a year ago 
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We planned to get married, have kids, move in together. We planned we were going to be together for ever. He told me he didn't want it to end so I'm confused as to why he left me :/
RnBStar13 posted over a year ago
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That doesn't mean it won't happen with someone else. Just not with him. I know my mother thought she was going to grow old with my dad. Didn't happen, but she's so much better off with my step-dad. And there's a chance you'll never know why he left you. I still don't understand why my guy started looking at this other girl. He doesn't even understand it still. Don't dwell on what COULD have happened with this guy. .Think about what WILL happen later on. If you still really want him, you could try to get him back, but be prepared for rejection. And whatever you do, do NOT take your life.
Kassaremidylynn posted over a year ago
kendallfanwov said:
just make him jealous! make him feel like u dont need him! im not saying date a guy u dont wanna date. im just saying be confident that u can last without him! pretend he never existed!
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