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PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!! Should I ask him out? Am I old enough? What should I do???

Hey people. Can you please take your time to read this because I have no idea what to do. Thanks.
Okay. Here it goes. Well there is this guy at my school named Maurice. I really like him for who he is. His attitude, character, way of being, the way he is. In October 2010, I started to like him. Then as the months went by I FELL IN LOVE! TRUE LOVE! RIGHT NOW I AM WAAAAY PAAAAAST LOVE! I ADORE HIM!!! WAAAY MORE! Well here is my story that started 5 months ago. ^I was eating lunch on a sunny October day and my friends asked me "Who do you like Vicky?" So I told them about Maurice that is in our grade. Later that day when they were finished eating lunch & I stayed behind talking to one of my friends, they came back and said. "Vicky! Good news! We asked Maurice if he likes you and he said..."well kinda.... I don't know... maybe a yes.... sortaa...YES!" I got all excited because he likes me back so when the bell rang to go back to class, my 2 friends started to pull me to tell him that I like him, and my other 2 friends pulled Maurice to tell me that he likes me. Well that didn't work out so we just went to class all nervous and sweaty. Okay 2 weeks later, I told him through facebook that I like him. He said that he could already tell and that he knew that. So I asked him.. "Did you know that I like you?" He said that yes he already knew and that why was I asking. I said that I did know I just wasn't 100% sure and wanted to know really badly! Then I asked him "Do you like me back?" He didn't respond and went offline. Then like 3 months later his cousin Maylie told me that Maurice had told her that he actually loves me but to not tell anyone. Well Maylie told me that he is just so shy and doesn't want anyone to know that he loves me. Well the prob is that we both love each other but don't know wat 2 do about it. Well it has been 5 months of me loving him and I have been thinking about asking him out. But I don't know if I should ask him out. I am a 12 year old girl and do
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not know what to do! I just can't wait until i am 15 cuz he will move to a diff Jr High next year. He could like a diff girl or have a girl friend by that time. Time can really fly! If i just "move on" I will be missing a chance to date some1 who really likes me back. i just can;t move on cuz not every 1 will like me. Not every guy will want to go out. I will not love or like evry guy that likes me. I will not want to go out with every guy. It iwll not be easy 2 fing some1 who will feel this way about me. So I can't just wait. We will be @ diff Jr Highs. He decided to move to a dii jf high because his mom really wants him to go there for 8th gr and to go 2 a diff high school.
busted posted over a year ago
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please help guys! I don't know if i should ask him out! I am a 12 year old girl and can't let a chance like this go by!!!!!! PLEASE PLEAS EPLEAS PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANKSS
busted posted over a year ago
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hun, don't let him go. i ve been through exactly the same thing, and its terrible when it ends :( you dont want it to end badly trust me. im seeing my boy expert bff tonight, i'll get her opinion and use it with mine to write you a gd answer k ^.^
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Amberla said:
Well I got all the time it needed :)

Go for it, girl!... It might a once in a life time oppotunity and if you don't do, you may regret it some day... I blew my chance up but I believe you wont so just go get your Maurice ;)
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Forget the age things when it comes to this, I backed out and accidently cursed at my love and it broke his heart which I think could have something to do with the preasure of our ages, we were thirteen
Amberla posted over a year ago
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thanks a lot girl! I don't care if I am 12! You are right! This is an opportunity!! I will be careful though I am kinda young.
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well Love is a big word I feel 12 is an approptiate age thats how old I am.But just know if this works out between you two then if you break up to keep calm.If you want come talk to me I know how to get through these things from experience
suzyisbrute posted over a year ago
ashmaine said:
i understand what your going though i'm 12 and is in love with a boy but i don't know if i should ask him out but this a great example for both of us we should go for it live your life where old anof

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poplilly said:
ok it a little bit hard for you but i have a good solution you go and tell him that you are tired of thinking about him and his love and if he did'nt take your relationship seriouly tell him that you will forget him an you will step up and follow you're life if he love's u he won't let you go
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Sometimes I really wish there were more adult questions ON HERE. This person is too young to be on Fanpop when asking this question to begin with {like I see those that answered saying you go girl ALSO 12! Yeah You Go Girl & then I hope it works out & please tell us how everything went because we hope it does go well yet there are so many "I am inlove with this guy at my school-what do I do?" questions.

It is all part of life and growing up. You have to figure it out for yourself no matter how many opinions you get. Some people just need encouragement & seek only to listen to opinions that are like their own, and opinions are cheap anyway-we all have one. Ultimately it's your own decsion and skin you live in. There is where you find out what you MOST need to do right at whatever time & if nothing else we fly by the seat of our pants, wing it, learn, & grow.

This is over a year old (I am sure the maker may not even see) & I hope I am not repeating.

It is doubtful it is "love," or anywhere close. Tossing that word around really detracts from the true meaning of Love. It really takes getting to know someone and that depth, even if liking them for "who they are" is a good start... Romantic Love was not designed to be "inlove" with many people in a lifetime unless you have a Don Juan complex! (and I have known some rl people who have! Great guys, but Jeesh! Loved them ALL. lol) We are meant to get to know them deeper. Love is a deep thing. Maybe it is something else?

I guess I am old fashion -but I think 12 is too young for "dating." I also do not think girls should ask guys out. I am not saying there is anything wrong with that, per se, but I think there can be. I won't get into all on my opinion there.

Sorry.

*Usually, at younger ages like this, & throughout teens, everything seems BIGGER, STRONGER, MORE DRAMATIC than it really is. I would cool your jets! Many a love-struck teen cries wildly into her pillow or almost ran off to marry the guy too young to spite the parents who "YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND!!! I LOVE THEM!" only to find when she is older that there were not ANY real feelings there involved.

I think if the guy likes you, he should show it, otherwise he is blowing it. Communication is key-you find as you get older. Like you said, it IS an opportunity. A girl can put herself out there and tell him she likes him, etc. But guys and girls have a courtship game, a courtship dance, to woo, to win, to chase. If you want to cut all that out, that is fine and your business, but to me that can be a fun part. I enjoy all that personally, I just find that guys who are super shy guys that way or don't know how to approach are NOT the guy for me. I like them to work for it a little. It's a give & take and there may be exceptions to rules but it really depends on each situation and how you want.
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