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What should I do??? :(

My crush kissed me a few days ago, even though he's dating another girl, I know some of you might find that wrong and I respect that, but he's in love with me and her. Him and I are trying to hide the fact that we kissed and almost made out... I feel really bad and so does he, but we want to keep kissing and being together, we have to hide it from everyone and we both want to be seen in public together, I don't know if I should stay with him and stay happy and guilty or leave him and feel heart-broken and soulless. What do you think I should do?? =(
 brooke9878 posted over a year ago
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lermanlover said:
I saw your other question and looked at this one, I'm glad to hear about how you care about the other girl's feeling.

Lay down the law. If you don't want to hurt anyone in this situation, then tell him how your worried about the girl he's dating, and listen to what he has to say.

This is the important part. Restrain yourself from getting serious, when he has another girl on he's hand.

I really hate saying this, but ever thought saying that the boy and the other girl should break up? Please only do this if it's your last resort.

Hope everything goes ok, best wishes--lermanlover
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Thanks... and I have thought about my secret-bf and his girl breaking up, he said sometimes he wish he knew I was in love with him back when he had to pick between us. And he says sometimes he wish he chose me.
brooke9878 posted over a year ago
shivers-zimmy said:
Be Careful! If He Has Another Girlfriend Then Why Be His Secret Girlfriend? I Think A Relationship Should Be Shone! People Should Know That You And Him Are Together! So Tell Him How You Really Feel! Tell Him That You Love Him! Maybe That's The Extra Push That's Needed!

Think About The Other Girl Too! If He Stays With You And Her-After You Tell Him The Truth-Then He's An Ass! If He Won't Choose, Make Him Choose! I Think The Other Girl Has A Right To Know! If He Won't Pick A Girl, Then Tell His Girlfriend!

I Hope This Helped! Sorry If I Was Rude! :)
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You weren't rude... thank you. That's exactly what I did, and now we're together. :D
brooke9878 posted over a year ago
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Awww That's So Sweet! :)
shivers-zimmy posted over a year ago
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