I like dis guy that everyone tells me is not good for me cause he sometimes drinks, does drugs and smokes. i know cause of this i wouldn't be able to date him cause of my parents knowing he does this. i can't acept this what should i do?

All i can say darling is compare the pros with the cons, and ask yourself would it be worth it

Ask yourself this question, do you want to get mixed up in that kind of trouble? You've already said that your parents don't approve and this guy drinks, does drugs and smokes. Being with someone like that is already a problem. It's still your choice of course, but personally I don't think you should be with someone like that. You're only gonna get mental and/or physical abuse in relationships like that.

The guy I like used to do all that, and he likes me but people are trying to convince me not to hang around him, and he's actually a really kind person.