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I don't know what to do...

so I've been talking to this boy from my school for about 9 months.. he's great, he's funny.
the only problem is that i've fallen in love with him and I don't know what to do.

He used have a crush on my best friend, but right now I don't know if he still likes her, because he spends more time with me and he doesn't talk to her anymore. My bff tells me that he likes me too but i don't really believe her... he is so hard to understand.

Everyone tells me that it would be a huge mistake to tell him how I feel about him. But it's just so hard... What should I do?
 Glow posted over a year ago
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DarkBeauty73 said:
What type of things do you do together, can they be considered date things, hanging out just the two of you, watching a movie, eating a meal together, how close to you sit to one another. If you do any of these things then maybe you could bring up the subject in some way to get some idea of how he feels. You never said how old you were. I know if I was you I would like to know but at the same time be afraid to ruin what you have. Don't know if I helped any, good luck.
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we are not in the same class, he is 14 and I am 15.. and yes. i am very afraid to ruin our friendship. but thank you, you helped me very much.
Glow posted over a year ago
xroylex said:
take it from someone who has found love and also lost loves in so many ways then just dumping them you need to ask him how he feels i mean signs if they like you do they smile at you? allways ask you how your feeling? and does something with you instead of there mates? and is he not shy to be round you or enbarassed to be near you? thats some ways but trufully you need to ask him you need to tell him how you feel i mean thats what i would do but take your time and soon he will tell you and figure out that you and him might be ment to be together :) good luck with it
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thank you for your advice :)
Glow posted over a year ago
thespikedturtle said:
Life is short. You need to take a risk. If you like him, then tell him so. If he likes you back, then yay! If he doesn't, there'll be other guys that come along for you! But if you never ask him, you'll never get to find out!
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thank you... i'll think about it
Glow posted over a year ago
skillet_luvr said:
don't tell him, unless it feels right for you. i was in the same situation, and i didn't feel right but i told him anyway. turns out he didn't like me and i haven't felt okay ever since. don't risk geting your heart broken.
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:(
thespikedturtle posted over a year ago
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I don't really know what he feels for me ... thank you for your advice ... and i'm sorry for what happened to you :(
Glow posted over a year ago
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you're welcome. i mean it is better now that he knows, but id been through a lot of pain. i got lucky because that guy was really sweet about it. :) but ultimately, it's your decision. don't le your friends determine whether or not you tell him.
skillet_luvr posted over a year ago
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i with her....ive been through the same thing
Sofeara posted over a year ago
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