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Daddy, I'm happy. Doesn't that count?

It all started off like this, I've had this close guy friend since 3rd grade. And he asked me out some days ago. He's a really sweet, understanding guy. And I know this since I've known him almost half of my life so far. My dad kind of knows that I like this guy. He would approve of it, but one problem: my friend's black. Why is this such a problem with my dad? I'm happier than I've ever been, doesn't that count? My dad's always said that he cares about my happiness, but why not now? What's so wrong about being with a different race? Color doesn't matter. And when I told him, he came up with the classic excuse: the Bible disapproves of it. I respect the Bible, on all levels mostly, but NOT the, "different races shouldn't be together" statement. What if this guy is the perfect one for me? My dad also tells me he'll ground me, take away the Internet, and all of that bullcrap if I keep on with liking someone of a different race. How should I talk to him? Or should I just keep it from him?
 Vexi posted over a year ago
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Aliwill_MD said:
"Different races shouldn't be together", wow it's one of the most stupid thing I've ever heard (with "a woman can't love a woman and a man can't love a man" and "you can't love seomeone who is twice your age").

It means that "someone" (in this case, God, but I don't care) imposed rules and you're obliged to respect it ? I agree the "don't kill someone else" (or I don't know what it is exactly) but seriously there mustn't be rules about love.

You can't decide who you love. If the one you love is black, a girl too, or is twice your age. You don't have the choice. Nobody can forces you to love someone.

You don't have to love a "white person" (sorry I don't know if it's right, I'm not English, hope you understand) just in order to be a god person. If you have to, so love sucks. What is extraordinary in love ? The feelings, the sensations... and NOT the rules. They aren't important.

Sorry, maybe my answer is not good because I don't believe in God - and if he exists, so he's a jerk because he doesn't have to choose the one you love. Okay, I'll receive some shoes in the head but I hope you understand what I'm trying to explain (even if I don't speak English very well)
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posted over a year ago 
melikhan said:
i why is he doing that???????
i think u should talk to him with Cellphone or chat....
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posted over a year ago 
Iluvusomuch123 said:
Tell ur dad that u like this guy and racism has got nothin 2 do with the bible! its unfair that u cant be with him my boyfriend is african and i love him so much! my family folllow the bible but we hate the racist part! tell ur dad u love him and thats all he can do about it!

RACISM IS EVIL!!!!!!
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Tell ur dad that u like this guy and racism has got nothin 2 do with the bible! its unfair that u cant be with him my boyfriend is african and i love him so much! my family folllow the bible but we hate the racist part! tell ur dad u love him and thats all he can do about it! RACISM IS EVIL!!!!!!
posted over a year ago 
ljsb said:
It does NOT matter......I mean i like a blonde guy and am mexican......so what
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by the way am a female thiz is not me on the pic
ljsb posted over a year ago
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