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This is becoming even worse.

Okay. Well, a guy I've known since the day I was born and I are well, best friends. I have pretty much been in love with him since the day I learned what 'liking a boy' was. It's been seventeen years and we've been going strong for all that long. You're probably thinking "This is so stupid, its supposed to be for advise!" well, I do need advice.

Well, he told me on my birthday how he felt about me, because one of my "friends" told him how I really felt, and he said he couldn't stand to see me cry like i was. As bad as we both badly wanted to, we couldn't go out. So everyday we acted as a couple, without being one. This past Valentine's day we were just hanging out, but late that night, it got a little too far.(If you know what I mean) I admit is was fun, but I'm still dreading it. For three reasons, too. 1st, CATHOLIC GUILT!!! 2nd It kinda sorta maybe.... got me pregnant... 3rd I'm seventeen and both of our parents(Mine and his) are saying that we'll be good parents, and that they knew we were soulmates anyways so it makes no difference that we're having a baby together!!! I just don't know what to do, the Catholic laws are strict, and HIGH. Especially here in Ireland, so I've been going to church, mainly with him, confessing, and praying, but I.. I just don't know what to do.
..Help
(P.S please dont reccomend abortion)
 mislead01 posted over a year ago
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thespikedturtle said:
You're Catholic, right? So can't you go to confession and ask for forgiveness for it? If it is true love, then God will understand, and He will forgive you for it. If you have been doing that, then there's nothing to worry about, you did what you could on that subject.

As for the baby, I'm pro-life, I'm not going to suggest an abortion. It's a baby, and it has a right to live. You sound like you truly regret the fact that you had sex, but there's nothing you can do about it now. Just make sure the baby grows up healthy and that you get God's forgiveness, and everything will be okay. :)
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I'm a guy...
thespikedturtle posted over a year ago
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sorry if i made it seem offensive
celticcutie01 posted over a year ago
meagab11 said:
well i'm catholic and well haven't gotten pregnant I'll tell you some stuff if you need help you should stay with him and plus you should have the baby.
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shes also right. Emma, youll be fine as long as Nate stays right with you through it.
celticcutie01 posted over a year ago
celticcutie01 said:
They're all right. And plus, you've got Nate, he will be with you through it all. I trust he will be a good father and he will always love you. If you remember that you have Nate, and you have God, and you have your guys' parents support, you'll be alright
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maninblack said:
oh... its quite complicated ! well, i will suggest you its good that you are having a boyfriend,your baby but do talk and discus with parents till all this clears upcoz they will give you moral support.
and at first dont be depressed or nervous.this is life so everyone has problems. BUT EVERY PROBLEM HAS A SOLUTION.
you dont want abortion..thats ok. i think you and your boyfriend should live with parents and do a part time job or somethig till you become of the age to get married BY THE CATHOLC LAWS. in that time YOU will bring up the child. and then when you will legally et married,you can live togather and also will have some money.
sorry my english is not so good but i wanted to help you.
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Marcii said:
If it is love than don't worry if you two are the same and love each other you will be good. God is never unforgiving so just follow your heart anyone who says gett an abortion don't listen it is not worth it. I wish you the best of luck.
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