blackgraycats I don't know what advice I could give you..from what I've read, she clearly has no respect for you. She's only using you as her toy/doll that she could play with and not even needing to care about how you feel. I find it very offensive that she would use 'gay' as an insult, and that she had actually sexually harassed you.. If I were you, I'd try to stop hanging out with her.. I know it's really difficult, and I'm not really one to talk..but if she has no respect for you, she is not your friend. If you had already tried talking to her about this, but to no avail, I would suggest you leave her and hang out with other friends who would respect you. It may sound a bit harsh, but it would be a great warning and lesson to her, so she can learn to respect people more [if she's not so thick-headed, that is]. So, my point is, even if it's so difficult [I know because, I always tried but I can't do it so many times, until one day I could ignore all of these kinds of torments], try standing up for yourself, try asking her to stop, and if she won't listen, leave her. Moving out of the country would be really really sad and you could get lonely.., but if you can make new friends there, I can only hope you'll do fine.., and you could still contact your old friends and family members..It would definitely be scary and you'll miss them greatly, but try seeing this as a new start, as a chance to be free of your 'friend.' I can only wish you the best, and I hope I could help you..I promise I'll pray for you every night.. Good luck, dear.. The fandom will always welcome you, and if you need help, we'll try our best to help you :)

black_amaranth Oh... Oh my God. Why are you even still thinking of that insolent idiot? If I was you I would've slapped her across her face the moment she made a sexual pass at me. My advice for you is to get away from her as soon as possible and ignore her. The way she's treating you is as if you are her little toy and nothing else. I mean, sure, my friends and I joke around and tease each other as well, but not in that way. It's as if she thinks she owns you. So you should just ignore her and hang out with other people, she doesn't deserve to have a single moment of attention from you with the way she behaves. Good luck, and talk to us whenever you need help.

Snickerz911411 @blackgraycats @black_amaranth Thank you both. I never saw it as her treating me like a toy before.

Tinekraut It seems you are incompatible to be friends with each other. How did you two become friends? Has she always been acting like that even before? If she really is like that since the beginning, why would she make friends with you when she hates everything you like? And why would you befriend and hang out with her when she disrespects you? You two probably started out as good friends and she probably wasn't a jerk before. Then something must have changed her. If you would like to consider taking an action, you might want to find out what made her change. (That is if you can give it a time.) It will help you understand (not necessarily accept) why she's acting like that. Whatever those "unknown causes" are that changed her, it would determine what you should do next to "save" that "friend" of yours from "damnation" and bring her back to "normal". (lol I really did use that word damnation)... Though, it just depends on you if you still care about that friend. Of course, everyone deserves help, even that friend of yours (much more she needs to be saved from going astray in life), but it depends on you. You also have some personal considerations and priorities which we do not know so it is for you to weigh if you still have to preoccupy yourself with that problem or just leave her be. (Afterall, you will already migrate to another place.). If you ever choose to "save" that friend of yours maybe one thing that might help is to let her parents know about her behavior. You might need to turn to her parents, considering that, most likely, personally confronting that girl will just have no effect (though you have to at least try expressing frankly to her your anger, I mean your problem, for her to realize.). But you know, parents are the primary ones responsible for straightening up and for the welfare of their children. So they can take disciplinary action. You should also talk about it to your parents. They would be able to give you helpful advice. And they can help out also in talking to, or telling off that friend to stop abusing you. Elders have inherent power and authority in them so somehow, scolding that girl should scare off, I mean, should make her realize that she should stop picking on you and that she should have shame for herself. Then you can also seek help to your school counselor/psychologist. It is best if you're able to know the causes of your friend's behavioural/attitudinal changes. Giving more information about it to the psychologist will help piece together the proper solution for your friends rehabilitation. It really depends on you if you really still have to concern yourself about her. (btw, excuse me if I ever sounded ridiculous in here.)

Snickerz911411 @Tinekraut Well she did seem nice and shy at first but then a few days later she started to treat me terribly. I think that K was always like this. How do I know that? Well whenever she talks to me (every conversation is about her) she brings up what she did a few years ago like how she did drugs, have sex, and drink alcohol. Her parents knew about this and idk what they did but she still does that stuff to this day so I'm not sure if her parents are a big help. My mother did say she was going to talk to this girl's mother so I'm just hoping something will happen. I can't talk toa school counselor because I'm a homeschool student and it's now summer for me since I finished all my assignments early. I still don't know why this girl insists on believing we are still friends because my sister had a sleepover at her house recently and so my brother picked my sister up instead of me, after that she texts me and I just ignore her texts. I'm not sure that she gets the message that I don't want to be friends. My mother told me to ignore her because we live in the same neighborhood.

Tinekraut Wow....... I guess, the solutions I offered are inapplicable. I guess, you really just have to stay away from her. How about try changing your number. And if you may, perhaps you can ask your parents to talk not just to Miss K's parents but to that girl herself.

Snickerz911411 Okay then I will talk to my parents about that but I don't think they would be comfortable about that.

Snickerz911411 What I mean was uncomfortable about talking to K since she is not their child.

Tinekraut A yea, threaten her to leave you alone if she doesn't want to get reported to the authorities, say an institution that administers rehabilitation for such juvenile misbehavior or something. I don't know much about US system so I can't specify, but that's how we do it here, we report it. Sanction is the keyword. Pose a punitive measure if it really is getting that worse. Your parents can just have it in mind that they're doing it for you. Parents would never want their child to be in this situation so have trust in them.

Snickerz911411 Okay.

kokeshi-love What a terrible person.. The 'miss K I mean not you. But it must make you happy to know that these Fanpop friends support you through this. Next time something like this happens, I hope I will be able to give you advice, but I think the best people to listen to are @Tinekraut and @black_amaranth