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Harry Potter Omg Did Yall Know That Dumbledore Is Gay??
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The only appropriate reaction from me is OMGYAY.
Anyway, there's no way anybody could really *know*, but now that it has been revealed I can totally see it. It's absolutely perfect and gives so much more depth into the whole Dumbledore/Grindelwald thing.
As far as Ron (iLuVBETTy) goes, well, he's only 13. We can only hope that time opens his eyes....
Great job on making these unthoughtful comments. It's called 'prejudice' for a reason: you're judging people before you know them. For some people being gay is a big part of their identity, but for a lot of people it isn't: they're just people who fall in love with people of their own gender, and they can't help it. Love is beautiful, and you CAN'T change who people fall in love with, so hating that is kind of useless.
And I know the best way to deal with unenlightened people like you is just ignoring them, but I can't help myself.
You're probably just set on shocking people and getting reactions out of them: congratulations, you've reached your goal. Now let's see if you can handle responding to intelligent comments.
I can get into intelligent debates with my friends about how I believe there's a little bit bisexuality in everyone, and I can open another friend's eyes to her bisexuality, but I can't MAKE people gay, just the same as you can't make other people straight.
And why should we keep it in our own bedroom? We have as much right to be holding hands or kissing in public as straight people have.
Besides, if you want to repress sexuality think about the victiorian society you're bound to get.
And, most of all, like I said already: people don't CHOOSE to be gay. It's not as if we wake up one day and say 'well, today I'm not liking guys/girls anymore'.
You're born with it or you're not, and we're a part of society, and we don't want to just keep it in the bedroom. We're not harming anyone with our sexual preferences, and you want us repressed?
The interesting thing is that whenever I debate with someone on an issue I'm passionate about (like gay rights (completely pro) and religion (completely contra)) I spend time picking apart their arguments and counter every point of theirs and people don't even TRY to convince me? That makes it really hard for me to keep on debating seriously, and to take their stance seriously.
Right now you're only convincing me more of the idiocy of homophobic people.
It just really hits me on a personal level. In my country and in my circle of friends people are so accepting and tolerant, for the most part (although my country is becoming somewhat less tolerant at the moment) and I just can't imagine that homosexuality is still forbidden in some countries, and that the lives of some people can still be ruined by bigots...
Here in the Netherlands the fight is already mostly fought, but gay rights is still the issue I'm most passionate about.
But unless someone else has to add something homophobic I think I should stop ranting about gay rights, before I scare potential ontopic posters away with my passions.
and there's not a bit of bisexuality in everyone so before you go around saying what everyone thinks get more facts. so what if im homophobic, ever hear of FREEDOM OF SPEECH. Like i said, you wanna have an intelligent debate, thats fine but stop getting everyone to gang up on me.
WHICH MEANS THAT I HAVE READ ALL OF THE HP BOOKS SO YOU NEED TO LEARN EVERYTHING ABOUT THE HP BOOKS,MOVIES, AND CHARACTERS BEFORE YOU GO AROUND SAYIN THAT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's true that a lot of her argument is based on opinion, however-- SO IS YOURS. So I wouldn't go questioning her facts, unless you want to be the pot calling the kettle black. Besides, it's been my experience that everything she's said is right-- my EXPERIENCE. Because as a bisexual myself, and having known so many heterosexual and homosexual friends, I've seen relationships from both ends of the spectrum. If you're against homosexuality, that's not the topic at hand. The word you used is a derogatory slur, just like any racial slur, and I'm sure you wouldn't call a black person the N-word, now would you? Stop complaining about people ganging up on you, and stop calling everyone names, it's far from classy. If you want to debate-- and I mean REALLY debate-- this topic has been discussed at length over at the link. But I have one request-- if you indeed decide to post there, please leave your hate at the door and use logical arguments like those who have already posted. Make logical arguments for WHY you disagree with it, and don't dismiss others so easily. I've read (and listened to) MajorDork's comments on why it is Biblically immoral, and though we still disagree on the subject, we understand each other more. I can't believe I'm saying this, but take a page from his book and learn to debate sensibly, without insulting people or using ignorance to promote your own bias.
And for the record, Lunaste is obviously more articulate than you. I won't mention what this says about intelligence.
I agree with Doctor D, the comparison was definitely valid. I dare you to debunk it. What's the difference? It's a matter of preference, and it's a matter of love. If you're against that, that's another argument entirely, but I'm still arguing about the fact that you used a bigoted slur against a group of people you know nothing about. I'm afraid that IS prejudice, whether you want me to point that out and expose you as a bigot or not.
sorry, i know you keep saying back off and that people should be able to mean what they want.. But what where you thinking beginning to comment such an important subjekt without wanting starting a debate! And as for your "I can think what I want", its true. BUT people should be able to have the same rights! And we should be able to accept all sorts of different people!
My argument has always been about your rude language. Nothing more.
iLuVBETTy, it was not meant as a real attack.
I have to say that I don't agree with your views on gay people, since by using that slur you've insulted me personally.
I also have to admit that my debating can get a bit out of hand, meaning that I really want people to see things from my point-of-view.
You keep hammering on my comparison of hair color, but it was just an illustration. I don't think a preference for blondes or brunettes is the same as being gay, but I was trying to say that that's something you can't help falling for.
Being gay is not a mental disorder: it was removed from that list almost a century ago (if I have my historical facts right).
It's the same as heterosexual love, just in different bodies and with different issues with society.
It's not sick: it's two consenting adults (or teenagers) who are (usually, there are ofcourse exceptions) fully aware of what they're doing. It's not like pedophelia or bestiality where one party can not make rational choices.
Anway, I myself am fully aware that I can never make you see what I mean with all this. I can only hope that time and education make you more accepting.
(one thing though: if you're so against gays, and they ruin series for you... then why do you watch Ugly Betty? Assuming from your nickname it's probably one of your favorite series as well. Do you close your eyes whenever Marc and Justin are on screen or something? It just stood out to me)
jk. I found out a few days ago.
as to the debate. people should always keep an open mind about sexual orientation and other debatable subjects. at one point in time, "white" people were racist towards "blacks" but, now that we look back on it, it seems utterly stupid and unforgivable. look at how we are considering being homosexual in the same light.
now, that sexual orientation is another subject to be debated thoroughly there are a lot of individuals who look down upon it which makes being homosexual "wrong". it would be very funny if in the future our children or our children's children laugh at us at how we were so stupid and ignorant because we thought that being homosexual is "wrong", just as how we thought racism is wrong.
so please, consider others before you state your opinion on a negative basis. there will always be those who will "attack" you because they have a totally different point of view on the subject. and just becasue you think about it in a certain way, doesn't mean other people have to as well. homosexuality can be compared to other subjects like "hair colour". to be honest, i dont think what the person meant was particularly hair colour but, the way people prefer people themselves as brunettes or blondes (if that makes any sense).
and i agree that being gay is not a mental disorder. is loving someone a mental disorder? i really don't think so. loving someone that isnt the opposite sex doesnt automatically mean you have a mental disorder. you were made this way. and its funny how religion can have a part in this. i dont mean to bash christians (i WAS christian but, not anymore because i dont share the same views) or those who believe in God but, if humans were really made in the image of God.. how come there are homosexuals? how come we are stupid? how come a lot of us are ignorant and completely narrow-minded? it goes to show you that everything cannot be solved with being of a certain religion. and if God loves all of us equally, then homosexuals are also loved equally. so i suggest that no one makes further points or debates on homosexuality AND religion in the same debate.
debating is well enough but, dont think that other people do not have points of view either. if you say something negative about something, you must be ready to be proved wrong or vice versa.
You have to be really careful with commenting on the internet since sometimes you can forget that on the other side of that internet connection can be an actual person, who has feelings that can be hurt.
I don't know what to make of your last two comments, but I do think you're entitled to your own opinion and I can't do anything about that.
And don't worry too much about your orientation: I believe that sexuality is fluid and that it can fluctuate, especially if you see yourself as bisexual (I don't know if you meant me, but I'm not a lesbian ;) ).
(my gaydar goes off whenever Justin is onscreen, but that's a different discussion entirely)
Im sure dumbledore would have recovered if someone called him that ;) After all, he was a great character and probably would have been above letting such ignorances bother him, ya?
Besides, even people who are against gay behaviour, Dumbledore wasn't in a sexual relationship. He just happened to have gay feelings. That's different.
But apology accepted. As my only quarell with you was your language, I am completely appeased and have no more qualms with you whatsoever. Salaam alekhum, or may peace be with you! I wish you well.
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