I've just swooped in to give you guys an explanation as to why I have left the site last week.
Firstly, many thanks to those of you who emailed me wanting to know what had happened to my profile. Some thought my account had been hacked,others assumed I had been suspended as a user. To be totally honest, I wasn't in any mood to reply to numerous emails indiviually nor did I want to bother with explanations.
However,this link was linked to my account on Facebook yesterday by a fellow Fanpopper, so I thought the decent thing to do was answer this myself.
I was a user on here for over 18 months and this place was like my second home - truly. I felt very content and comfotable on the site.
From the very beginning, you guys were always very nice to me and made me feel very welcome here. But over time I saw things that I did not particularly think were right or fair happening on the site. Users verbally abusing other users, mild kind of bullying going on,etc. I chose to ignore a lot of that and just carry on and do what I was here to do. BUT there is some things one cannot turn a blind eye to. Or should not!
I didn't come on here to start a battle or to rubbish the site or any users in any way. My aim is to express my disappointment at how some user behaviour should not be tolerated.
Anyway,it's the double standards and unfairness that seems to be happening here that has made me discontent and disappointed enough to want out. Medals, over 1,000 props,Fan of the Year,etc really means very little to me in comparison to integrity and what I believe to be right from wrong.
I fully realize that not everyone will like or agree with what I have had to say here. But I have not said anything that is not a fact. Some people wanted to know why left the 'pop so I have explained it as honestly as I can.
There's just one last thing I really want to say and that is how great in particular the young kids on here are. As the mum of a 20-year-old, I am fully aware of how harrowing teenagers can be,lol, but you guys are awesome. Some of you are way more mature than many adults I know and I thank you all for being so sweet and kind.
I thank Fanpop and the F4 for the time that I spent on here as it was special to me and I will miss it and the people. But now it's time to move on.
All the very best to everyone!
Love,
Cam
