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Debate When it comes to bullying, whose fault is it that it's happening in the first place?
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The bully
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The parents of the bully
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Society
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The Eyewitnesses
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No one's fault.
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The victim
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The parents of the victim
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EX:
A freckled face girl with glasses "A" is bullied by a girl "B" with "perfect" features.
I don't think it's the A's fault she has freckles and glasses. But I don't think it's B's fault she is bullying the girl in the first place. Maybe it was peer pressure? Maybe the parents said something that made B feel upset and her anger was released on A...
There can be a lot of factors into why one bullies. They could have had a rough home-life, or be insecure or threatened, or not fully realize what they're doing is wrong. But,in the end, it's the bully who made the choice to bully. No body stood behind them and went "Oh, you better pick on that smaller kid over there or I'm gonna [insert threat]."
In the end, I think it's never the bully's fault if he/she starts bullying. In some cases, the bully is raised by such norms and values that he/she thinks it's okay to belittle someone like that. In some cases, the bully never had any parents at all to learn them that you shouldn't bully others. Nobody is born as a bully, therefore he/she becomes one because of a certain someone or a certain event in their life. And I honestly believe that most of the time, it's their parent's fault.
I've had problems at home but I don't take it out on people. You can be who you want
Now, i walk onto the street and see people getting bullied for having freckles...
Firstly, the bully might not live with their parents (same with the victim), damn, might not even KNOW their parents.
Secondly, while i agree our upbringing effects who we are immensly, only YOU have control over your own actions. Having a hard home life or a bad example from your elders is not an excuse for bullying.
The thing is, that can and does happen with a lot of 'bullies'. A lot of it does have to do with peer pressure.
But I do agree, in the end it is the bully's responsibility to be accounted for his/her actions, and how he/she treats other people.
However, I do believe other factors such as the ones listed in the fanpick can be significantly influential in the development of a bully or even worse, and how a bully portrays his behavior.
But heres the thing; i've seen bullies with kind, honest, sometimes rich parents who set a great example yet they still bully.
And there's children from rough homes with parents who don't give a crap what they do, but the kid still grows up a kind person because he/she wanted to break the cycle.
And I simply blame the parents for doing something, or nothing.
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