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Debate Jelousy accurs mostly because of ones...
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Insecurities
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Sincere feelings,& are afraid of loosing the person
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Guilt, for doing something wrong
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Man am i bad at this. LOL
I disagree with that one one hundred percent, i mean if you really "Love" the person i mean come on give them some space, do you doubt your parner that much?
Thats were GUILT kicks in is are you afraid of them betraying you? I mean jealousy can only be attained when you know you've done something wrong throughout your relationship; you are only afraid to be found out therefore you keep your partner in check to try and turn the tables on them.
Incecurities fall under guilt as well you are afraid of the person leaving you because of what you are uncomfortable with. Therefore you feel guilty, by blaming yourself for your "flaws"
When I get jealous, it's not because I doubt their love or are actually afraid of losing them, and I don't really get the guilt choice, I haven't done anything so far to be guilty of, really...
But it's competition. I see the girl he's checking out/previously dated/whatever, and I go over them in such minute detail, saying oh I'm better in this way, but they're better in that way, they do that better, but I do this better...are they skinnier than me? smarter? funnier? cuter? ...lol I torture myself over everything, because I want to be the BEST. For him. And then I get over it after a couple days. :)
I'm only speaking for myself, though, because I think jealousy is a complicated emotion that behaves different for everyone.
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