I just felt like posting the differences between the songs that played when DE danced, kissed, then ultimately made love with SE's love scene music. I'll start with SE's first. The song is Cut by Plumb.

I'm not a stranger
No I am yours
With crippled anger
And tears that still drip sore

A fragile frame aged
With misery
And when our eyes meet
I know you see

I do not want to be afraid
I do not want to die inside just to breathe in
I'm tired of feeling so numb
Relief exists I find it when
I am cut

I may seem crazy
Or painfully shy
And these scars wouldn't be so hidden
If you would just look me in the eye
I feel alone here and cold here
Though I don't want to die
But the only anesthetic that makes me feel anything kills inside

I do not want to be afraid
I do not want to die inside just to breathe in
I'm tired of feeling so numb
Relief exists I find it when
I am cut
Pain
I am not alone
I am not alone

I'm not a stranger
No I am yours
With crippled anger
And tears that still drip sore

But I do not want to be afraid
I do not want to die inside just to breathe in
I'm tired of feeling so numb
Relief exists I found it when
I was cut

Notice how these lyrics describe finding relief through cutting oneself, pain, and feeling cold/alone. The music in TVD is usually very telling of the situation or mirrors feelings. This is not the typical kind of song that a person thinks would play during a love scene. It's too tragic in my opinion to be considered for the true love story of the show. I'll put up the song for DE's dance/love scene now. It's Kiss Me by Ed Sheeran.

Settle down with me
Cover me up
Cuddle me in

Lie down with me
And hold me in your arms

And your heart's against my chest, your lips pressed in my neck
I'm falling for your eyes, but they don't know me yet
And with a feeling I'll forget, I'm in love now

Kiss me like you wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
This feels like falling in love
Falling in love
We're falling in love

Settle down with me
And I'll be your safety
You'll be my lady

I was made to keep your body warm
But I'm cold as the wind blows so hold me in your arms

Oh no
My heart's against your chest, your lips pressed in my neck
I'm falling for your eyes, but they don't know me yet
And with this feeling I'll forget, I'm in love now

Kiss me like you wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
This feels like falling in love
Falling in love
We're falling in love

Yeah I've been feeling everything
From hate to love
From love to lust
From lust to truth
I guess that's how I know you
So I hold you close to help you give it up

So kiss me like you wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
This feels like falling in love
Falling in love
We're falling in love

Kiss me like you wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
You wanna be loved
This feels like falling in love
Falling in love
We're falling in love

Notice how THESE lyrics describe falling in love, finding warmth, and settling down. This song is more of what I picture for a good love scene. I especially love the verse: "From hate to love, from love to lust, from lust to truth" because do you realize how fitting it is for DE's journey? ;) Elena started understanding Damon, but then he made a mistake and she said she hated him....through time they loved each other as friends and eventually it turned into desire. From desire, it's now turning into the truth in that Elena loves Damon. This is how I interpret it anyway, other people might take something different from it of course. It seems that Chris Mollere also likes using Ed Sheeran songs for DE scenes.