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Damon & Elena Question

what do you say to all SE and DB fans, who all say that they miss human elena because (in their words) she was in love with stefan?

let me tell you. this really irritates me. its like they are completely ignoring all the amazing development that elena has gone through, just because they dont like her with damon. its absolutely rediculous! i know that everyone has their own opinion, but still!
 loveofdelena posted over a year ago
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panther-jewel said:
Elena is still basically the same, vampirism even intensifies the true characteristics of a person, and Elena is still a very compassionate, forgiving and loyal person. She only grew up and became a more mature, stronger and more alive version of her true self, she developed as a character. And Elena did that partly because of Damon, but it has been in her anyway, and it already came through before her parents died and she tried to suppress what was inside of her to protect herself in that grieving situation.
And now, Elena is the best version of herself, still forgiving and compassionate, but also with the strength to protect her loved ones and with the will to protect herself, and she has never been seen happier or more in love than with Damon. Delena are repeatedly declared to be real (not supernaturally forced or non-existent like others), loving Damon is even the “most real thing” that Elena has ever felt in her life, what is repeated, too, just like the “everything they ever wanted”. Damon clearly is the best for Elena like she is the best for him, they fit together perfectly and bring out the best in each other.
And Elena fell in love with Damon while she was human, the intense of her love for him even created a rare sire bond, and she declared believably on many occasions that she would still love and choose Damon even as a human being – or with him and/ or her having any other form. Elena headed to ending up with Damon from the beginning, and even though it probably would have taken longer for her to give in to her true love with him without becoming a vampire, it none the less would have happened sooner or later. Elena only had to overcome the doppelganger curse, her severe loyalty and her fear of the intensity of the deep emotions that she had for Damon and that were new to her as well as of what other people might think of her, and you could already see that in her calling herself a “scared little girl that couldn’t admit what she wanted” and in how logically she described why she should be with Stefan in comparison to how she speaks about how just being with Damon already consumes her and makes her happy.
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panther jewel, i couldnt have put it better myself.
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
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And as an addition: Damon also compelled Elena to forget several especially selfless and romantic moments of them, what took the chance from Elena to come to a choice with full knowledge, and her later “I mean, how would I make any decisions if I only know half the story?” is also aimed at her situation back then. Elena repeatedly declared to either not knowing what she felt or fearing to admit it, but she now even herself called temporary choosing Stefan one of the obstacles on her journey to be with Damon, whom she always finds her way back to and can’t live without. And when she died and ALL of her emotions were intensified, the difference in the extent of how much her feelings for Damon were magnified in comparison to those for Stefan or anyone else couldn’t be ignored by Elena anymore so that she at last gave in to her true love with Damon that already existed before, is indestructible and always survives.
panther-jewel posted over a year ago
teampetrova said:
Just tell them that Elena fall in love with Damon in 3x01, when SHE WAS STİLL HUMAN. I really hate it when SE fans refers Elena like an object whose duty is just make Stefan happy. And then they say WE don't care about Elena.
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tell me about it!! it really fucking annoyes me.
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
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its like they are convinced that human elena could never love damon, even tho it was proven that she did.
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
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Exactly! She loved him, she was just so afraid to admit it! But they will never understand it if they don't want to
teampetrova posted over a year ago
HaleyDewit said:
Nothing. There is no reasoning with these imbeciles. I take comfort and great pleasure in the fact that every Delena scene is a thorn in their eyes.
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lol you wicked woman you! (...snicker...)
loveofdelena posted over a year ago
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